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well was he trying to ride a horse or run the speed of the horse?  you have to be specific when you are manifesting,  as specific as possible

compassionatequeen said: 

well was he trying to ride a horse or run the speed of the horse?  you have to be specific when you are manifesting,  as specific as possible

When someone is on a plane, they are either piloting it or riding it. The man does not fly if they are on a plane. 

umm no Incorrect,  what does and does not qualify as a man flying depends entirely on your definition of flying,  which again is why being specific is important

compassionatequeen said: 

umm no Incorrect,  what does and does not qualify as a man flying depends entirely on your definition of flying,  which again is why being specific is important

You are literally reducing this to semantics at this point, you know what he meant. 

It would be arrogant to think you know better than everyone else, or that you are so special that ordinary people can't know some things of yourself better than you.

compassionatequeen said: 

I mean but what you choose to believe is the truth ultimately depends on what your goals are  because what your goals are blind you to all different sorts of alternate versions of reality  (this is coming from myself,  a manifestation professional)

 

 

 all I have is What I have to offer on this subject, just a conversation though 

The notion that we shape our own existence can be very helpful in allowing people who have experienced trauma or enduring difficulties, to make a swift and what they deem more ‘functional’ recovery from that bad or uncomfortable stuff they had to endure. 

They often do all of this on a subconscious level to some degree, naturally meeting whatever needs were most pressing or essential to their survival and well being. 

Our brain is a really impressive machine, and seems to do this fairly effectively a lot of the time. Very intuitively. 

So what you are doing right now is surviving. But the brain is often developing this survival in the state it is in (not a ‘sustainably’ healthy state of mind- it gets very complex here). And it’s basing its survival mechanism off of what it knows, a lot of it is bad data, bad programming from our past experiences. 

This survival state, while for some, can level out and become healthy later on- if you’re one of the lucky ones. It can lead you to a number of disastrous places and possibly crisis. 

That’s why it’s important, when considering your survival, the rules of reality so that ultimately you can receive the input that can help you as you survive, implement tools and ways of thinking that make your survival state healthiest for you. And its a constant work in progress adjusting this. 

Eventually you will come to realize, that without doing the hard work, and accepting some very difficult things to accept, or process some difficult things to process and admit. Your survival state could potentially become unhealthy for you as an individual. 

Being extremely accepting of yourself, willing, honest, and on top of this, understanding a fundamental of survival for many people following trauma which is that it’s *how your respond to it* that determines your well being after it has happened, (according to some psychological theory but not all agree)… it’s extremely good that you have these things. 

So if you agree it’s how you shape your reality, that matters most. If you do so without allowing input for things that exist in reality, this is not true stabilization it is only the facade of it, and it will come crashing down, and it will be more painful, than the pain you were running from in the first place. 

It’s not solid enough ground to stand on. So you will form a view of reality that is incomplete. Your brain will remain in an unhealthy and unstable state (complex neuropsychology stuff, but it’s science lol) and this will not necessarily defeat you later but it will come back to bite you, there will be dysfunctions that remain, that don’t serve you best. 

All people respond to trauma this way and it’s only a natural response to generate a survival state. You will do it whether consciously or subconsciously. The goal is that your survival state is truly healthy for you and your brain, and you are able to be in symbiosis with your body your environment your life instead of tormented by it or experiencing suffering or dysfunction, instability, etc. 

This takes work to build. Real work. And it takes facing reality. You have what it takes, like I said. But it’s a gradual process.