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Maninist said: 

 

it is different,  if your job requires you to be fit to do your job sufficiently then yes obviously you should have to be fit as a prerequisite   but does a chef need to be fit to do his job sufficiently ?  does a teacher who is an expert in his field on a subject ?  No,  no they do not

 and he should not have ever been hired on to that specific position if doing push up was a prerequisite,  not be hired on and then shamed later  that was employer negligence  also plenty of obese body guards would not care,  or would be more than happy to slam the "shamer" into the ground to prove his strength and his sufficiency at his job  ;p

 The guy was massive, and while he wasn't able to do a pushup, that doesn't mean he was applying less force than some other dude doing pushups. Maybe he was applying more force, and it wasn't enough. 

Fat men are very tanky and stupid strong from hauling their own weight. While he couldn't do any pushups, that doesn't mean he can't knock someone on their ass or restrain some mischievous punk.

 

agreed,  yes  :)

JesusistheKing said: 

okay,  Listen people struggling with obesity are not going to get healthy because of being given just diet and exercise advice alone,  or fat shamed into thinness,  obesity is actually caused by in my opinion an inability to heal from past trauma enough to be able to bounce back  these people are relying on food for comfort just like I was  and the first step to helping these people get healthy again is to STOP SHAMING THEM  THEY ARE OVERREATING BECAUSE THEY DO NOT KNOW HOW TO COPE WITH THEIR PAST PSYCHOLOGICAL TRAUMA  IT IS CALLED EMOTIONAL EATING AND "COMFORT" EATING  IT IS AN ADDICTION JUST LIKE ALL OF THE OTHER ADDICTIONS OUT THERE AND THESE PEOPLE NEED ADDICTION TREATMENT IN MY OPINION  (WHICH CAN AND PROBABLY SHOULD INCLUDE IFS THERAPY)

 

STOP SHAMING THE FAT PEOPLE,  WHAT IS SO "GROSS" ABOUT BEING FAT THEY ARE STILL BEAUTIFUL GOOD HUMAN BEINGS TOO  IN FACT A LOT OF THEM HAVE SENSITIVE LOVING COMPASSIONATE HEARTS BUT THEY HAVE BEEN HURT AND THEY DO NOT KNOW HOW TO COPE  DIET AND EXCERCISE ADVICE IS NOT ENOUGH ON ITS OWN,  AND IT SHOULD COME AFTER THESE PEOPLE ARE IN RECOVERY FOR ADDICTION  JUST LIKE TELLING SOMEONE STRUGGLING WITH DRINKING TOO MUCH ALCOHOL TO "STOP DRINKING BECAUSE IT IS BAD FOR YOU",  THE PERSON STRUGFLING WITH DRINKING TOO MUCH ALCOHOL IS NOT GOING TO STOP DRINKING UNTIL THE PSYCHOLOGICAL TRAUMA THAT IS PUSHING HIM TO DRINK IS PROCESSED THROUGH PROBABLY IN THERAPY OR IN A SUPPORT GROUP AND MOST IDEALLY BOTH BECAUSE YOU CANNOT DO RECOVERY ALL ON YOUR OWN YOU NEED THE HELP AND AUPPORT AND ENCOURAGEMENT OF OTHER PEOPLE  BUT ENCOURAGEMENT DOES NOT FREAKING MEAN SHAMING  STOP. FAT. SHAMING. IT IS NOT HELPING ANYONE.

 

 

 I agree 100% with you. But fat acceptance ain't that.