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(I retyped this in a calmer more rational mindstate for anyone who the capslock is too much for them)

okay,  Listen people struggling with obesity are not going to get healthy because of being given just diet and exercise advice alone,  or fat shamed into thinness,  obesity is actually caused by in my opinion an inability to heal from past trauma enough to be able to bounce back  these people are relying on food for comfort just like I was and the first step to helping these people get healthy again is to stop shaming them  they are overreating because they do not know how to cope with their past psychological trauma  it is called emotional eating and "comfort" eating  it is an addiction just like all of the other addictions out there and these people need addiction treatment in my opinion  (which can and probably should include IFS therapy)

stop shaming the fat people,  what is so "gross" about being fat  they are still beautiful good human beings too  in fact,  a lot of them have sensitive loving compassionate hearts but they have been hurt and they do not know how to cope  diet and exercise advice is not enough on its own,  and it should come after these people are in recovery for addiction  just like telling a person struggling with drinking too much alcohol to "stop drinking because it is bad for you",  the person struggling with drinking too much alcohol is not going to stop drinking until the psychological trauma that is pushing him to drink is processed through probably in therapy or in a support group and most ideally both because you cannot do recovery all on your own  you need the help and support and encouragement of other people but encouragement does not freaking mean shaming  stop. fat. shaming.  It is not helping anyone.

and the thing that sucks the most about obesity is that,  these people with the really sweet compassionate sensitive hearts even after they go through the therapy and addiction treatment and heal from their past trauma and are not overreating anymore and are dieting and exercising,  they are still overweight and are carrying the scars of their past for everyone to see and judge  you genuinely do not know how these people are spending their days,  how much exercise and effort that they are putting into getting healthy  and if there are any medical issues contributing to their obesity.  stop. judging. them.  you are not their all knowing god about their lifestyle or their personal fitness coach  stop making assumptions about them when you have not even taken the time to get to know them and their life story and what they had to struggle with that brought them to the point of needing to turn to overreating food as a way to self-medicate

I am not saying by any means to encourage fat people to remain fat and not feel sad and compassionate that they might be putting their health at risk,  but I am saying to love these people just they way that they are even while they are struggling with overreating anyway  people struggling with overreating are not their addiction just the same way that people struggling with drinking too much alcohol are not their addiction

I know.

I like curves, anyway.

i guess im okay with it

Most people don't attack fat people. Or do they ?

Michael and Logan probably would off camera. It's bad for their business model to insult some of their fans.

Some people aren't going to like you, no matter who you are or what you're doing. If you set your heart to please the wrong crowd, you'll certainly get destroyed.

You used to be a cam whore. Onlyfans or whatever, so you know first hand there is a fanbase for fat girls. But you don't want those guys, you want the man flying around in private jets banging tone chicks which they seem to prefer.

Spatial I actually do not want to be with or impress those type of people anymore,  but you must not have been keeping up

those type of people need therapy because they have their own destructive to other people around them and self-sabotaging addiction issues,  and I need my own therapy for my own issues

Michael also used to be very fat btw,  so the hypocrisy and lack of self-love is pretty sad and I have compassion for people like him  I have compassion for everyone really   especially as my self-compassion is taking over my unhealthy hateful judgmental Inner critic

JesusistheKing said: 

I actually do not want to be with or impress those people anymore,  but you must not have been keeping up

 I don't keep up. Hot and cold hot and cold. Plus I expect you to fall back into old habits anyway.

Why are you of all ppl not resilient over this fat shaming thing ? 

Did your last roommate not find you marketable ? I doubt that even happens to most women.

When you're gone, people will still think and say the same things for generations until extinction.

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If you want to lose weight, just do 10 crunches a day. There other are expensive options. 

I know a big girl in the states ( she's like my mistress. Facetimed me while in bed with her ex husband, on their wedding night. Another story. ) She did gastric bypass surgery, then the lbs melted away real quick. Then, it came back, bigger than ever.

If you see her, she's a beauty. Does the makeup and shit. She's like Cassandra Peterson's Elvira, except thic.

Now it seems she's losing weight again. Last time she lost too much weight in my opinion.

In 2022 we hear this word "thick" bring used quite losely, and every time it's a complement. It rolls over to the obese, pun intended.

JesusistheKing said: 

 

 

Michael also used to be very fat btw,  so the hypocrisy and lack of self-love is pretty sad and I have compassion for people like him  I have compassion for everyone really   especially as my self-compassion is taking over my unhealthy hateful judgmental Inner critic

 Hypocrisy eh. Did you hear Michael fatshaming someone ?

When i said he probably does, doesn't mean he actually did.

I comment on and even exaggerate my Goddaughter's weight every time I see her. She strikes back in the same way. To other people, or rather weak people, we'll seem terrible, but we're actually pretty healthy.