do you believe that we evolve into spirits that do not need to physically incarnate anymore and these spirits eventually evolve into God him/her/itself ? I felt like this seemed to make sense in the past and now that I am not believe in christianity anymore it still makes sense to me
yeah, If I cannot have an easy party life of indulgence in this lifetime then I want one in my next lifetime I am not really a partier, but I probably would be if I had a best friend who was a partier because I have seen how my personality changes depending on who I am in a codependent relationship with, such as when I lived with my ex Phill I became must faster energetically, more creative, and enjoyed all parts of his lifestyle except I never smoked crack even once but I was around people smoking it a lot and spent time in crack dens I mean where I was living was a crack den before we kind of took it over and made the basement our bedroom lol
btw this should probably explain my obsession with Michael Majlak to anyone curious, I wanted to have a codependent relationship with him so that I could party and explore the world with him, but I also had a psychotic break during my time living in hollywood when I first introduced myself to him and so if he did read what I was messaging him, I can see in hindsight why he would not be trying to meet up with me in person back then lol :p because I was saying things like I was Lilith and I pretty much hated men and wanted them all wiped off of the planet lol
You can do whatever you want in any lifetime; it's just whether or not you focus on whatever it is you learn to grow from. You have as much time, including as many lifetimes, as you need to do it. All the pressure or motivation only comes from yourself. The pure spirits, the good spirits, are all there for when we want to listen to them, as much as the bad or earthly spirits are there to try and bring us down or prevent our own growth (out of some selfish desires of their own).
There isn't any "have to" about it. You are responsible for your own life experience, for being better or worse or not changing at all. We all struggle with a sort of blindness there in our incarnations; it's hard to feel motivated for this abstract "betterness" when there's so much surrounding us that looks like no evidence of it. So why do all the work right? Where's the reward?
I'm not offering any answers or anything. I'd also be a bit suspect of anyone knowing answers for you when you aren't discovering them yourselves, or else having experience of the truth of it. That's not to say that there's no value in others wisdom and experience or even their feelings. The spirits claim to talk to us all the time to try and help.
...I may have gotten a little off-track, but I hope you catch my drift. XD
I handle people talking to me person to person on an equal playing field a lot better than someone trying to speak as a superior authority over me, and I am sure that most adults feel this way unless they are seeing some person as their mentor on something that they have no knowledge or understanding about hopefully since I am not trying to speak ot other people as a pretentious authority figure anymore, people will not feel like they should speak to me in that same way lol because I can see how annoying that is maybe this was one of the lessons for me to learn :p because you know who else used to speak to people here that way that just came to mind ? Luna and everyone eventually revolted against her lol
and I think that an antisocial pd focused forum is going to tend to have people who especially dislike someone attempting to have authority over them too, even more than like neurotypical adults
do you believe that we evolve into spirits that do not need to physically incarnate anymore and these spirits eventually evolve into God him/her/itself ? I felt like this seemed to make sense in the past and now that I am not believe in christianity anymore it still makes sense to me
Yes, the spirits claim that there is a state of pure spirits, where they never incarnate any more, though some still have ties to giving aid to those still incarnating. I don't know about evolving into God, though that seems on a par with Hinduism or similar beliefs. I'm not saying no, just I don't know. I've certainly considered the possibility.
...But, if God is infinite, it might take an infinite time. ;)
Really, while it's something to think about and theorize, it still doesn't take away from the work and self-discovery to get there.
I handle people talking to me person to person on an equal playing field a lot better than someone trying to speak as a superior authority over me, and I am sure that most adults feel this way unless they are seeing some person as their mentor on something that they have no knowledge or understanding about hopefully since I am not trying to speak ot other people as a pretentious authority figure anymore, people will not feel like they should speak to me in that same way lol because I can see how annoying that is maybe this was one of the lessons for me to learn :p because you know who else used to speak to people here that way that just came to mind ? Luna and everyone eventually revolted against her lol
and I think that an antisocial pd focused forum is going to tend to have people who especially dislike someone attempting to have authority over them too, even more than like neurotypical adults
Yeah; it can be annoying. It can feel disrespectful. But, sometimes it's well-meaning, sometimes it's out of their (and our) ignorance (to feel that way), and a number of less-than-malicious reasons.
Despite the annoyed feelings though, the reality is that we're only beholden to the authority we believe ourselves beholden to. There are laws of physics and logic that we're kind of locked into during this life, but we pick and choose our authorities -- out of convenience or being convinced, usually.
Just remember that even in a place like this, you don't have to consider advice or suggestions or whatever someone says as an attack or true, without skeptical consideration, ever. But it is also healthy to remain mindful and humble, for we can blind ourselves with our ignorance out of a sense of pride. That does no one any favors either. That's just...practical, lived, experiential wisdom right there.
Also, yes: maybe it is a lesson for you to learn, but understandably hard to learn when the way to learn it is the challenge itself. It might help, though, knowing it's an area to focus on and treat it as lessons, but don't lose sight of other people and how what you do affects them (which is also probably a part of our every lesson).
In case you're curious, and in the interest of harm-reduction, here's The Mediums' Book: https://cei-spiritistcouncil.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/THE-MEDIUMS-BOOK.pdf
