I have this issue where I attract the unhappy and disordered. In real life, I keep to myself. I'm an introvert. Humble. I'm like how Inquirer is here.
The problem is, BPDs and bipolar women find me intriguing for some reason (yes diagnosed ones). I'm beginning to see a clear pattern. I want to be surrounded by normal people, not unpredictable, impulsive maniacs.
What am I doing wrong?
It's not really an issue. Unless, you've fallen for her, and she's irratic.
In my case I keep my BPD's at arms length. Not too close, but not too far away either.
Whenever she starts devaluing me, I'm not even there for it and I lose no sleep whenever it happens.
Whenever I seem to be her favorite person, I'll stand my ground.
I do like the person, and I understand why she does the things she does. It once hurt but I've found happiness in being more calous with how I truely feel. It's for the better.
But yes if you're not interested in a person that finds you attractive, there's no real problem for you.
