Turncoat cannot seem to have respectful conversations with anyone, and he has probably convinced himself that this is psychologically norm and tolerable for other people to put up with but it is not, and people do not really want to communicate with people who cannot maintain a polite and respectful conversation about various topics It seems like he has no sense of or belief in any sort of innate beauty and dignity in being human and created in the Image of God no matter what behaviors and beliefs each person is responsible for, and that is horribly sad, but I do not want to engage with and enable his unhealthy toxic degrading conversations about humanity and spiritual any longer :/ I just do not, and it is what it is I fortunately have a right to choose boundaries for myself and to choose what I will and will not tolerate and what I will and will not encourage and enable, and I am realizing that continuing conversations with him is not doing anyone any good because he is responsible for his own beliefs and opinions, and I am not responsible to change them, I am only responsible to change my own and to become healthier in my own beliefs and opinions sooo yeah 👍