and maybe your warnings are unrealistic,
I was warning him what you were saying with copy paste and otherwise advising he have some time to himself to think through your conditioning.
what?
I was advising him to distance himself from you to ask himself what he really wanted out of life, as he was way too deep end when it came to worrying over you to the point of tuning himself out.
no dude he was being manipulative. yeah so worried hes choking me against a fucking wall, how sweet. you are dumber than you look.
Most sane people would be driven to strangling someone who puts them through what you do, but again either of you can just leave the other and the problem's solved.
admit its not me and you have no evidence that im abusive like you fucking say. and admit that br ACTUALLY ADMITTING SHIT TO YOU DIRECTLY is evidence
He needed to ask himself what he wanted, what his priorities are, rather than be sitting there worrying about how you're going to drink bleach, do weird shit in public, and report all your dirty laundry here as a way to keep him threatened and under your thumb.
The rape thing's messed up, I'm not touching that shit now and any means of talking to him's been circumvented by you pretty much so he and I don't talk as much anymore, but does that make the other things that happened become something that should be ignored?yeah he wont talk to you on the phone because hes fucking scared af about being recorded because he feels guilty and so hes paranoid, also he could meet you in person and talk about it its not like we are not fucking neighbors
You make him paranoid, and as his stress ramps up he's being driven to respond violently.
no its his nature. has he told you about (redacted family member)? it runs in his family. especially when he feels guilty
You two need to seperate for both of your own good, I highly doubt he was doing any of this before you and I doubt he'll strangle anyone else in his lifetime.
What he's doing isn't right, what you're doing isn't right, yet you two choose to live like this. You both have a choice, and you have chosen to be strangled and raped while he's chosen to live in fear and stress over your weird behavior and how often you chew him out and embarrass him in public.
Seriously, just leave.
maybe, but because you fucking treat me like shit and be chummy with br who is the proven abuser, while acting like im so terrible, it shows how you are INSANELY BIASED OUT THE ASS AND UNFAIR, and i cant take anything you say seriously. even br thinks you are biased af, and once he said you were delusional. even he is losing respect for you here, the person you THINK you are helping or whatever the fuck stop falling for fucking THIRST use your MIND