This guy (Mr. Girl) has a platform where he basically wants to explore uncomfortable truths and honesty, and in a way push back against political correctness and niceties. The video is a recording of him and his gf having a talk about something that was bothering her: Him calling her his sex doll. The conversation ends up being about a lot more. The camera quality is good, but it's not a skit or anything. Just a fun watch.
He also calls her controlling for having boundaries, while constantly interrupting, pushing her boundaries, and controlling the situation.
He said she was controlling by constantly trying to maneuver roles through reframes. Do you think she didn't do that?
that guy is a genius.
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The message is there, but the way this guy goes about it is completely wrong.
How so? I've seen a lot of negative reaction to him in this video on the Internet. I have my own opinions and think he is making some missteps, but it seems to me like most people just don't like that he was mean or pushy in the video.
The message is there, but the way this guy goes about it is completely wrong.
How so? I've seen a lot of negative reaction to him in this video on the Internet. I have my own opinions and think he is making some missteps, but it seems to me like most people just don't like that he was mean or pushy in the video.
He is much more prepared for being on camera than she is, her eyes keep being surprisingly open and revealing while he tries to control the situation with an unbreaking stare, which usually telegraphs bad signs to me for mindset.
He seems used to getting his way for the wrong reasons, and some of his preferences if she's not into it would be pretty unhealthy for her psyche. He's treating a lot of this more like power plays rather than a real discussion, an assertation of his position within the guise of reason but done with forceful tone, having it cease being as reasonable as it really becomes about body language and tone the more it continues on than the words themselves.
He is literally fetishizing dehumanization while attempting to break down her walls of resistance. This is the same guy I've seen in another video try to break down why rape is just a matter of post-rationale and that ethics have nothing to do with it, and he's used to trying to dominate the discussion by just plainly saying something very flatly so that they have to adjust to him.
That's so called 'alpha strats', which is offputting to a lot of people. He isn't really there to talk to her at all, he's attempting to assert domination to force her compliance in spite of her having very different ideas, and this seems fairly normal to him. Lots of red flags, the guy seems like a dick fairly early on.
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5/28/2022 8:46:08 PM
The message is there, but the way this guy goes about it is completely wrong.
How so? I've seen a lot of negative reaction to him in this video on the Internet. I have my own opinions and think he is making some missteps, but it seems to me like most people just don't like that he was mean or pushy in the video.
He is much more prepared for being on camera than she is, her eyes keep being surprisingly open and revealing while he tries to control the situation with an unbreaking stare.
He seems used to getting his way for the wrong reasons, and some of his preferences if she's not into it would be pretty unhealthy for her psyche. He's treating a lot of this more like power plays rather than a real discussion, an assentation of his position within the guise of reason but done with forceful tone.
Do you think what he was saying was wrong?