And you sound more BPD than sociopathic.
That's bad bad news for a baby. Just the worst.
just because they did shit as a kid does not mean they will as an adult
BPD behaviours are not the same as autistic behaviours or ADHD behaviours.
People don't just out grow them.
Sometimes they can be taught, with years of extreme amounts of therapy.
But apparently, it's like trying to teach somebody to not scratch when they're rlly itchy or smthg.
Not impossible, but quite difficult.
"Sweet nectar of life"? Wtf.
Good.
If you weren't concerned, there'd be no hope for you, and a whole other set of problems that would entail giving the child up for adoption.
Still there's work to do. Don't seek relief or else you'll fail as a parent.
Discipline is important to avoid becoming like you. I stress "Do not punish accidents or inexperience, but punish misconduct."
If your punishments don't command immediate compliance, then increase the severity of the punishment.
A child who's afraid to cross their parents is better than one who cares not what their parents think or feel. Fuck the grey areas, that's not in your control.
There's a chance you'll rarely need to punish the child, or not, or even never. Don't make it the main theme.
Your husband is a homosexual. Jk, maybe he's just gay and likes real sex.
Well aren't you the master fucking parent. So how many kids do you have? Lmfao. What do you even base your advice on?
What's even more worrisome is that you might beat the hell out of your baby and then try to hug the child's pain away.
That ain't gonna happen.
I would recommend giving the child to a caring family, tbh.
And you sound more BPD than sociopathic.
That's bad bad news for a baby. Just the worst.
Here we have an armchair psychiatrist. Are you done analyzing me? What makes you think you have the right to talk about my child or dictate how I live my life?
Pregnancy gives you a bigger bust which also springs the sweet sacred nectar of life.
Starting to notice how you talk about breast milk more than anyone else here.
"Sweet nectar of life"? Wtf.
Good.
What's even more worrisome is that you might beat the hell out of your baby and then try to hug the child's pain away.
That ain't gonna happen.
I would recommend giving the child to a caring family, tbh.
And you sound more BPD than sociopathic.
That's bad bad news for a baby. Just the worst.
Here we have an armchair psychiatrist. Are you done analyzing me? What makes you think you have the right to talk about my child or dictate how I live my life?
LOL
The fact that you came to a public forum asking for advice.
Duh.
If you don't want people to answer, then don't ask the question.
And yeah. This response shows that you're too self centered and temperamental to be a good parent.
Not to mention forgetful lol do you not even remember asking us if you should give up your baby?
Definitely give that baby away so you won't damage it.
Or just have an abortion so it won't end up a menace to society.
If you ask your kid for his/her opinion and then berate him/her for not giving the answer that validates you, s/he will grow up messed in the head.
Pregnancy gives you a bigger bust which also springs the sweet sacred nectar of life.
Starting to notice how you talk about breast milk more than anyone else here.
Search Results for 'Milk':01/06/2021
06:58:01 Spatial Mind: As CS drank the whisky, the lord still turned it into milk
01/06/2021
07:07:52 Spatial Mind: You're still producing milk !?
07:09:22 Spatial Mind: Trypt. CS needs to pump milk !
07:10:13 Spatial Mind: I heard if you keep pumping milk it keeps coming, so do it everyday CS
01/06/2021
07:32:22 Spatial Mind: Blanc, did you notice that CS has been producing milk and giving some to Trypt straight from the faucet ?
01/30/2021
04:00:21 Spatial Mind: You still have milk ?
04:01:37 Spatial Mind: So Quintasia, what did the baby have to eat while your took away her milk supply for 3 weeks ?
02/01/2021
05:14:04 Spatial Mind: And the milk supply ?
02/10/2021
02:16:13 Spatial Mind: Diary is milk, Med
05:40:51 Spatial Mind: Jim co created the milk Chapo drinks tonight
02/12/2021
05:40:55 Spatial Mind: Did Chapo get the milk ?
05:42:02 Spatial Mind: I'm talking about the milk you co created
02/15/2021
05:46:38 Spatial Mind: Eat, you need to make milk
10/31/2021
23:24:37 Spatial Mind: And you're not producing any nourishing milk either
11/01/2021
00:28:19 Spatial Mind: Trypt was able to sample CS's milk, for they came together in the heat of CS's lactation
00:31:14 Spatial Mind: It's probably unlikely there were traces in whisky in your nutritious milk
11/27/2021
21:15:22 Spatial Mind: Maybe the baby and Trypt were sharing a drink together while CS was still producing sweet warm milk
12/15/2021
19:30:40 Spatial Mind: I don't think Blanc will produce fresh milk from the teet
21:00:54 Spatial Mind: Don't you know it's a sin for milk to be exposed to the light ?
05/13/2022
02:17:31 Hawk: It was so much more convenient when CS was producing nourishing breast milk, and now she doesn't produce it anymore, which is a shame.
I've been making breast milk jokes since Ellict was a member almost a decade ago lol. So of course if CS said she needs to pump milk I'll kill it.
for real though who wouldnt steal breast milk
Yes it's not easy to come by something so rare and nutritious.
One must be very cunning and strike when the producer isn't looking.
Blizzard should have hired a security guard to keep the fresh produce safe.
4. Stop making wise cracks.
No more calling out sexes randomly or making fun of breast milk. Within a close circle this is funny, but it can also be troublesome.
Breast milk is nutritious.
I remember when it was Tryptamine's turn with CS, she was still producing creamy milk from her teets, and since she was getting drank with Trypt, her bb might have gotten a bit of the ol scotch whisky in her natural blend.
Given the timing I'm sure Trypt himself sampled the fresh lactation while his penis was inserted in CS's mid section.
CS's milk when pumped and chilled would likely have some scotch cream along it's surface, then heated and served for that extra aged punch.
LOL
The fact that you came to a public forum asking for advice.
Duh.
If you don't want people to answer, then don't ask the question.
And yeah. This response shows that you're too self centered and temperamental to be a good parent.
Not to mention forgetful lol do you not even remember asking us if you should give up your baby?
Definitely give that baby away so you won't damage it.
Or just have an abortion so it won't end up a menace to society.
If you ask your kid for his/her opinion and then berate him/her for not giving the answer that validates you, s/he will grow up messed in the head.
I want useful answers by people who actually know what they're talking. I'm not going to give away my baby to anyone. I will raise the baby myself.
What makes you think I'm temperamental? I just can't stand armchair e-psychiatrists like yourself. Do you seriously believe you can assess my personality from a single post? That you say I'm temperamental or self-centered is so far from the truth, you have no idea.
I would never berate my child. You are so arrogant.
3 years of sociocultural anthropology and archaeology, 2 sociology electives, 3 in psychology, including Human Growth and Development. Plus the metaphysics and epistemology from whence the discipline came.
Armchair nothing.
And you're berating every person who has answered your post thus far.
Including somebody who knows.
You srsly think you'll be able to refrain from talking to your child this way?
I highly doubt that.
You're so combative you'll probably kill it.
I recently became pregnant and I'm so worried that my child will become like me. My husband of several years turned out to be gay and wants divorce. Please help I don't know how to raise a child.
I even start flaming people who are really nice to me because they don't fit with the narrative of the different imaginary person that I want to be.
Every now and then I feel really fucking awful, like I want to die, and I apologize, but my behavior has driven away every one of my close friends because they refuse to put up with my bullshit. I don't know what to do.
When I was a kid I loved beating up the things I loved because I wanted to see their reaction. I feel really disgusted with myself for doing that, especially later in life I look back at my behavior as a kid when I beat up the family dog and then hugged it to show much I loved the dog, I feel like I'm so fucked up in the head and think I deserve to go to hell.
It's my punishment to feel lonely and I think it's God's sign of telling me that he has abandoned me when he turned my husband gay.
I'm worried my child will be fucked up like me and it's all genetic.
Yes it is mostly genetic.
Is it better for the child to be adopted?
Yes it is.
