19:01 Chapo: honestly Jade is so independent and smart for her age
19:01 Chapo: doesnt cry just because mommy is at workarmchair child psychologists, are babies supposed to be independent at two years old? At that age they should be clingy and have separation anxiety right? Is this a sign jade has become used to being left alone for long periods of time?
It's not necessarily good or bad. It could be that. Or maybe the kid got over that stage a bit earlier. But you can't trust a person like that to be honest not even with themselves. Personally I'd evaluate for autism just in case
why do ppl do these mental gymnastics, the child is permanently fucked up at this point from all the shit she has witnessed and her poor drunk excuse for a mother. if she deviates from the norm in any way, it's pretty safe to assume its from cs abuse and neglect
I'm not totally au fait with all this shit, but it strikes me that repeatedly antagonizing a clearly emotionally disturbed person (I mean this CS person rather than Chapo, altho could be said for both) might be contributing to the problem..?
She was messing up her baby even before anyone here was antagonizing her
I mean sure, but still seems like it could make things worse. You can't vex someone into not being a train wreck lol