18:19 Chapo: Friedrich stfu tbh
18:19 Chapo: she didn’t do anything wrong
18:20 Chapo: She deserves mother of the year award
18:20 Chapo: She’s an amazing mother
18:20 Chapo: better parent than you could ever dream to be
18:56 Friedrich: I'm a better parent by not having kids LOL
19:00 Chapo: You’re actually not a better parent cuz you’re not a parent
19:01 Chapo: stop being a fucking idiot
19:01 Chapo: honestly Jade is so independent and smart for her age
19:01 Chapo: doesnt cry just because mommy is at work
19:01 Chapo: loves life
19:41 Friedrich: are you really trying to make a case that cs an alcoholic child neglecting mentally ill person who refuses treatment and is visibly and obviously very unstable is a good mother?
19:42 Friedrich: like
19:42 Friedrich: im not joking
19:42 Friedrich: i could burn a baby with cigarettes and probably it would still be up for serious discussion who is a better parent me or her
19:44 Chapo: How is she neglectful
19:45 Friedrich: she has a history of neglect and being fucked up around the child. are you fucking serious?
19:46 Friedrich: it is well documented here
19:46 Friedrich: nd she admitted to it
19:46 Friedrich: hat are we discussing even=?
19:50 Chapo: She’s not neglectful
19:50 Chapo: at all
19:50 Chapo: I have no idea what you are talking abkutb
19:50 Chapo: about
19:01 Chapo: honestly Jade is so independent and smart for her age
19:01 Chapo: doesnt cry just because mommy is at work
armchair child psychologists, are babies supposed to be independent at two years old? At that age they should be clingy and have separation anxiety right? Is this a sign jade has become used to being left alone for long periods of time?
Most Cordial Regards,
Curator.
19:01 Chapo: honestly Jade is so independent and smart for her age
19:01 Chapo: doesnt cry just because mommy is at workarmchair child psychologists, are babies supposed to be independent at two years old? At that age they should be clingy and have separation anxiety right? Is this a sign jade has become used to being left alone for long periods of time?
It's not necessarily good or bad. It could be that. Or maybe the kid got over that stage a bit earlier. But you can't trust a person like that to be honest not even with themselves. Personally I'd evaluate for autism just in case
19:01 Chapo: honestly Jade is so independent and smart for her age
19:01 Chapo: doesnt cry just because mommy is at workarmchair child psychologists, are babies supposed to be independent at two years old? At that age they should be clingy and have separation anxiety right? Is this a sign jade has become used to being left alone for long periods of time?
It's not necessarily good or bad. It could be that. Or maybe the kid got over that stage a bit earlier. But you can't trust a person like that to be honest not even with themselves. Personally I'd evaluate for autism just in case
why do ppl do these mental gymnastics, the child is permanently fucked up at this point from all the shit she has witnessed and her poor drunk excuse for a mother. if she deviates from the norm in any way, it's pretty safe to assume its from cs abuse and neglect
19:01 Chapo: honestly Jade is so independent and smart for her age
19:01 Chapo: doesnt cry just because mommy is at workarmchair child psychologists, are babies supposed to be independent at two years old? At that age they should be clingy and have separation anxiety right? Is this a sign jade has become used to being left alone for long periods of time?
It's not necessarily good or bad. It could be that. Or maybe the kid got over that stage a bit earlier. But you can't trust a person like that to be honest not even with themselves. Personally I'd evaluate for autism just in case
why do ppl do these mental gymnastics, the child is permanently fucked up at this point from all the shit she has witnessed and her poor drunk excuse for a mother. if she deviates from the norm in any way, it's pretty safe to assume its from cs abuse and neglect
I'm not totally au fait with all this shit, but it strikes me that repeatedly antagonizing a clearly emotionally disturbed person (I mean this CS person rather than Chapo, altho could be said for both) might be contributing to the problem..?
19:01 Chapo: honestly Jade is so independent and smart for her age
19:01 Chapo: doesnt cry just because mommy is at workarmchair child psychologists, are babies supposed to be independent at two years old? At that age they should be clingy and have separation anxiety right? Is this a sign jade has become used to being left alone for long periods of time?
It's not necessarily good or bad. It could be that. Or maybe the kid got over that stage a bit earlier. But you can't trust a person like that to be honest not even with themselves. Personally I'd evaluate for autism just in case
why do ppl do these mental gymnastics, the child is permanently fucked up at this point from all the shit she has witnessed and her poor drunk excuse for a mother. if she deviates from the norm in any way, it's pretty safe to assume its from cs abuse and neglect
I'm not totally au fait with all this shit, but it strikes me that repeatedly antagonizing a clearly emotionally disturbed person (I mean this CS person rather than Chapo, altho could be said for both) might be contributing to the problem..?
She was messing up her baby even before anyone here was antagonizing her