when people say 'believe women' they don't literally mean BELIEVE THEM WITH NO EVIDENCE AND INSTANTLY CONVICT THE MALE. they mean take her claim seriously and investigate properly without being sidetracked by what she may have been wearing or if she has had sexual contact with the person before, if she has nudes in her phone etc.
believe women means don't automatically assume they're a lying slut, cos most times they're telling the truth. same thing applies to children and men who make such claims. ignoring rape is a worse crime than believing a liar.
I think consider women makes more sense, just believing automatically can be just as bad as automatic disbelief. Unless there is evidence they are telling the truth, as in my case, THERE IS.
Not to nitpick, but all we've been going on from both you and him's been hearsay.
Right, because br just lies that he committed rape and then flees to another city for shits and giggles.
Raped person "this rapist raped me" rapist "I raped this person"
Turncoat: "welllllll it's all hearsay, there isn't any evidence any rape actually occurred......"
For all we know you two are still together playing a prank on us, all we have are the words typed which isn't proof.