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Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

I feel like these tops accent the shoulders rather than hiding them. 

I don't have enough upper arm fat to feminize my shoulder line, it's actually one of my areas I'm self conscious over. 

 I don't think your shoulders are that broad, there might be a mix of your dysphoria in that criticism. 

It's not like I'd rightly know, but I see it as this glaring flaw that, among others, pushes me into the uncanny valley if I'm not wary. I see it from other trannies as well so it's not just over my own form, but my own fixation on my own shoulders could also be leading to cherry picking to confirm the belief. They just kinda blossomed when I was 18 after learning how to use Kali Sticks and I've hated them ever since. 

The 'excuse me ma'am's stop if I'm not careful of all the little things. 

 I'd have to see to get a sense but i definitely don't think they are as broad as you think, and sometimes trying to hide them make them look stronger 

Yeah, I've noticed how shorter or cropped sleeves makes my upper arms look fatter, which is the desired effect. I only have one or two shirts like that. 😢

V-cuts also help a bit, but then I don't have boobs so it mostly just androgenizes the form. 

 Get a boob form

The good ones are expensive, and I'm coming more to terms with how there's a lot of different female body shapes rather than just the cultural ideals. 

 I mean, good for you. That's a good thing. Boob forms are like 100$ on Amazon, it's not super unattainable.

Woah they used to cost more for the same quality, they must have released a fancier alternative that made the older stuff become relatively worth less or found a cheaper means of producing it or something. 😁

Those would be no good for T-shirts or ones that feature the neckline but long sleeved shirts and scarfs might still work while hiding that pesky adam's apple. 

Lenalee said: 

Friedrich said: 

She really has tits?

 

I hate that my eyes immediately zoom to all the flaws, it has me assume that's what everyone is doing. 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Friedrich said: 

She really has tits?

 

I hate that my eyes immediately zoom to all the flaws, it has me assume that's what everyone is doing. 

 Name em, hate the sneakers

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Friedrich said: 

She really has tits?

 

I hate that my eyes immediately zoom to all the flaws, it has me assume that's what everyone is doing. 

 Name em, hate the sneakers

For minor infractions the upper shoulders don't have enough fat, the hands have a masculine pudginess to them, the and the neck wrinkles a bit at the Adam's Apple range while showing a masculine stiffness at the throat, but I got more stuck on the appearance of her cheekline and chin. The hair also looks too done up which suggests 'work was done', and all of this is before looking at her tits (before noting how it makes her hip-line looks smaller which isn't feminine either). 

Seriously my eyes go to flaws immediately, which is how I can't be happy with myself either. 

Edit: Ugh it's also the calves, look at them. Even before I can say how I see it's a man or woman I typically just sense it and I hate that, even to the point of judging Cis-women who resemble it. I mean really, it just reads as so obvious that it makes me that much more insecure, often not bothering to do the whole dress up thing from how men aren't judged as much for looking 'wrong' beyond a few Chad values: 



The face is always the biggest giveaway. 

Eesh. Bad plastic surgery plus botox is a horrid combination.

I might consider a bit of nip and tucking/ lifting if I come into some money in the next few years.

But no botox. Just never.

About your shoulder problem:

Raglan sleeves.

I'm pear shaped and disproportionately small through that area, so I know these things.

Raglan sleeves attached to a round neckline will make your upper body look smaller, thereby making your lower body look bigger.

Wear a light colour on the bottom.

I also avoid drop shouldered blouses like the plague.

https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0223/4813/products/Drop_Shoulder_Denim_Top_3.jpg?v=1529610443

Ofc none of that will help your ugly manface  :P

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Friedrich said: 

She really has tits?

 

I hate that my eyes immediately zoom to all the flaws, it has me assume that's what everyone is doing. 

 Name em, hate the sneakers

For minor infractions the upper shoulders don't have enough fat, the hands have a masculine pudginess to them, the and the neck wrinkles a bit at the Adam's Apple range while showing a masculine stiffness at the throat, but I got more stuck on the appearance of her cheekline and chin. The hair also looks too done up which suggests 'work was done', and all of this is before looking at her tits (before noting how it makes her waistline looks smaller which isn't feminine either). 

Seriously my eyes go to flaws immediately, which is how I can't be happy with myself either. 

Edit: Ugh it's also the calves, look at them. Even before I can say how I see it's a man or woman I typically just sense it and I hate that, even to the point of judging Cis-women who resemble it. I mean really, it just reads as so obvious that it makes me that much more insecure, often not bothering to do the whole dress up thing from how men aren't judged as much for looking 'wrong' beyond a few Chad values: 



The face is always the biggest giveaway. 

 South Korean feminization surgery is top teir, american surgeons can't compete.

 a lot of this is make up 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Friedrich said: 

She really has tits?

 

I hate that my eyes immediately zoom to all the flaws, it has me assume that's what everyone is doing. 

 Name em, hate the sneakers

For minor infractions the upper shoulders don't have enough fat, the hands have a masculine pudginess to them, the and the neck wrinkles a bit at the Adam's Apple range while showing a masculine stiffness at the throat, but I got more stuck on the appearance of her cheekline and chin. The hair also looks too done up which suggests 'work was done', and all of this is before looking at her tits (before noting how it makes her waistline looks smaller which isn't feminine either). 

Seriously my eyes go to flaws immediately, which is how I can't be happy with myself either. 

Edit: Ugh it's also the calves, look at them. Even before I can say how I see it's a man or woman I typically just sense it and I hate that, even to the point of judging Cis-women who resemble it. I mean really, it just reads as so obvious that it makes me that much more insecure, often not bothering to do the whole dress up thing from how men aren't judged as much for looking 'wrong' beyond a few Chad values: 



The face is always the biggest giveaway. 

 South Korean feminization surgery is top teir, american surgeons can't compete.

 

Friedrich said: 

 a lot of this is make up 

 

 

 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

Friedrich said: 

She really has tits?

 

I hate that my eyes immediately zoom to all the flaws, it has me assume that's what everyone is doing. 

 Name em, hate the sneakers

For minor infractions the upper shoulders don't have enough fat, the hands have a masculine pudginess to them, the and the neck wrinkles a bit at the Adam's Apple range while showing a masculine stiffness at the throat, but I got more stuck on the appearance of her cheekline and chin. The hair also looks too done up which suggests 'work was done', and all of this is before looking at her tits (before noting how it makes her waistline looks smaller which isn't feminine either). 

Seriously my eyes go to flaws immediately, which is how I can't be happy with myself either. 

Edit: Ugh it's also the calves, look at them. Even before I can say how I see it's a man or woman I typically just sense it and I hate that, even to the point of judging Cis-women who resemble it. I mean really, it just reads as so obvious that it makes me that much more insecure, often not bothering to do the whole dress up thing from how men aren't judged as much for looking 'wrong' beyond a few Chad values: 



The face is always the biggest giveaway. 

 South Korean feminization surgery is top teir, american surgeons can't compete.

 

 Nah, they tend to shave the jawline and chin, at time injecting into the jawline a type of Botox that will help minimize the manly look.

Most surgeons in the states would refuse to do that and the ones that due charge way too much because it's changing a face shape rather than like something minimal like a nose job. Make up helps but the main thing is to have max results