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Lenalee said:
Oh look, it's the same cope every rejected man stutters out "oh y-yeah? Well YOU'RE Ugly!!"

Are you actually retarded? Did you read what I said at all?

I don't need to work on picking anything up from your posts, they're all trash and you're not worth getting to know past this.

Clearly you didn't. You just form your opinions based on superficial impressions and make-believe, like a stupid person.

I think it's curious you're so intent on attacking my relationship with my wife. I just said I love my wife and trust her. Why is that such a big problem for you? I mean, if you're so thick-headed you haven't figured out by now that I'm not attracted to you, you never will.

I think it's much more disgusting what you do, trying to dig into e-people's personal lives to make them miserable when you have no evidence that they've done anything wrong. I'm inclined to think you're not just malicious and ugly, but also dumb as fuck. I think you actually believe what you say, which is hilariously tragiocomic by this point.

 

Did you forget how you bragged about fucking a married man before? I don't have any moral qualms about cheating or loyalty (I cheated myself before) but I find it kind of pathetic that you come here and vomit your own shame and self-hatred on others because you are unable to cope with how disgusting you find yourself to be, figure out how to deal with it through therapy instead of having BPD meltdowns with strong emotional language attacking people for things you did, talking to yourself through others, it looks psychotic and awkward.

Really? I thought that might be the case. By the way, Lena thinks I'm you. I'm running out of ways to tell that malicious clown of a person I'm not.

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Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 

Agreed, that's disgusting.

Is it? I think it's romantic. I think I'm romantic. Hopelessly so. Do you not crave for a soulmate who understands you deeply? Shallow girl.

I'd say you have already found your soulmate. His name is Xadem. He's great. A little retarded, but great. That you ignore him... Well, that's your loss. I'd say Xadem is quite the catch.

 It's not romantic, not at all. 

Don't you have a wife? You're disgusting. You go to online forums to attempt to emotionally cheat on your significant other? Why even be married? The fact that you then use wording like this 

Did you forget how you bragged about fucking a married man before? I don't have any moral qualms about cheating or loyalty (I cheated myself before) but I find it kind of pathetic that you come here and vomit your own shame and self-hatred on others because you are unable to cope with how disgusting you find yourself to be, figure out how to deal with it through therapy instead of having BPD meltdowns with strong emotional language attacking people for things you did, talking to yourself through others, it looks psychotic and awkward.

Unfortunately for you, I've never cheated. Maybe you're not able to understand that the one that should feel shame is the one that's already married and supposed to be in a committed relationship?

Doubtful, BPD are disloyal by statistic.

I didn't brag about fucking a married man, as I'd only broken up the marriage after seeing how depressed and emotionally abused a friend was, and even then it was just me saving every text he'd sent begging me to fuck him while convincing my friend to file the divorce. He was a furry and i would never fuck a furry.

Cope, you did it because you were desperate for validation and could not stand that your friend is in a relationship while you were alone and discarded by the guys you were hoping that they will choose you. Also having done this leaves you very little space to talk about others cheating etc. You are trying to make it seem like he's hitting on you to cover your desperate attempt to flirt with Legga (you made the posts etc) and get some supply from him. I can tell you are starved of bpd supply but also want to save face by turning it on him LOL

The only other time i can think about is Tryp telling people that i fucked a married man while leaving out information to make it seem more scandalous, like the fact that they were separated in an amicable manner and he had told me as much when we first started getting to know each other, or the fact that I'd meet his wife(which did indeed feel weird calling her that even if they were separating) and she finally told me why they were splitting. 

press x for doubt

you repeatedly shown that you aspire to be some sort of femme fatale who snatches men from others but end up here crying about how they dumped you LOL

The only thing that looks psychotic and awkward is a seething manlet on a puppet. Cope and get therapy lmao

I hope one day you will love yourself enough to not have to lower yourself to breaking relationships to drag down others to your misery and feel good about yourself for a week before you fall into despair again

By the way, I just got laid. It's after moments like these that I see you for what you really are, succubus.

 Like it's my fault you're out here doing this, rather than it just being you completely unwilling to take responsibility for something you've just made up in your empty little head? You're as deep as a cookie sheet. 

Stop projecting your gross feelings onto women and then blaming them for it, you miserable fucking worm.

You desperately throwing yourself at every man and clinging on them like a parasite makes this come across as less honest.

I'd love to know which men I'm throwing myself at, gimme a list pls

 Everytime a man comes here you try to play it tsundere by attacking em and stalking them and making 1000 threads, its like two forces are fighting in you, desperation to be loved and to look like you are strong?

inb4 you are legga, jealous, cope etc

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Lenalee said:
Oh look, it's the same cope every rejected man stutters out "oh y-yeah? Well YOU'RE Ugly!!"

Are you actually retarded? Did you read what I said at all?

I don't need to work on picking anything up from your posts, they're all trash and you're not worth getting to know past this.

Clearly you didn't. You just form your opinions based on superficial impressions and make-believe, like a stupid person.

I think it's curious you're so intent on attacking my relationship with my wife. I just said I love my wife and trust her. Why is that such a big problem for you? I mean, if you're so thick-headed you haven't figured out by now that I'm not attracted to you, you never will.

She can't stand that you have a relationship with your wife based on trust and love while she never experienced those things. All she has experienced was toxicity and negativity and discard, so she's now coming at you to destroy it? It's a common theme in thirty year old chicks though, bitter and abused and used by so many men, looking around and seeing people actually have healthy loving relationships, then looking at her own life etc

I think it's much more disgusting what you do, trying to dig into e-people's personal lives to make them miserable when you have no evidence that they've done anything wrong. I'm inclined to think you're not just malicious and ugly, but also dumb as fuck. I think you actually believe what you say, which is hilariously tragiocomic by this point.

It's not malice as much as misery loves company, if she makes you as lonely, paranoid and depressed as she is, then she can tell herself that it's normal to be that way and people around her are not doing better etc

Did you forget how you bragged about fucking a married man before? I don't have any moral qualms about cheating or loyalty (I cheated myself before) but I find it kind of pathetic that you come here and vomit your own shame and self-hatred on others because you are unable to cope with how disgusting you find yourself to be, figure out how to deal with it through therapy instead of having BPD meltdowns with strong emotional language attacking people for things you did, talking to yourself through others, it looks psychotic and awkward.

Really? I thought that might be the case. By the way, Lena thinks I'm you. I'm running out of ways to tell that malicious clown of a person I'm not.

Hahah sorry for using you as the fall guy but not really my fault either, they decided that I am Legga. I want to find out if I am self-aware enough to hide my identity long enough (most people blow their shit instantly with speech patterns etc). 

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I can't really demonstrate it very quantitatively. However, I rarely, if ever, see you concede anything. I'm also inclined to take your response as further evidence. I think you understand that, in order to get anywhere in a conversation, you should start from somewhere where you do agree.

Wait why? 

I understand going at it from a point of following the same rules of discourse, if that counts as an agreement then yeah that's sensible, but if two people are going at it from opposite viewpoints then the only room for concession is to seek it out through continued discussion. 

Yeah, you could call it rules of discourse. It's what they alternatively call shared reality, it's fairly a well-understood concept. If you both agree that poverty is bad and trust scientific literature, then you can somewhat objectively argue what kind of a society is better for poor people within the context of those things you agree on. If you don't agree that poverty is bad and don't trust scientific literature, then you have to form another basis for that discussion. However, establishing a concrete basis or a metric that can be pointed to, in conversations with you, has been difficult in my experience.

From what I've seen of his behavior, if he isn't pushed while simultaneously being supported by another party he'll keep what his true meaning is close to his chest. He needs to feel challenged in order to find that spark that gets him typing and he needs cheerleaders in order to keep that steam alive. At multiple points in this topic he's tried to leave important portions intentionally vague while practically leaning on the 'common sense' fallacy through implication to do most of the heavy lifting for him. 

In my experience, SpatialMind seems more certain than I would be, given the amount of supporting data. However, I'd say he seems more willing to change his mind than you and attempts to reason through evidence by pointing to objective things.

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Lenalee said:
Oh look, it's the same cope every rejected man stutters out "oh y-yeah? Well YOU'RE Ugly!!"

Are you actually retarded? Did you read what I said at all?

Did you even read what you posted

I don't need to work on picking anything up from your posts, they're all trash and you're not worth getting to know past this.

Clearly you didn't. You just form your opinions based on superficial impressions and make-believe, like a stupid person.

I think it's curious you're so intent on attacking my relationship with my wife. I just said I love my wife and trust her. Why is that such a big problem for you? I mean, if you're so thick-headed you haven't figured out by now that I'm not attracted to you, you never will.

Actually you never said you loved your wife, which makes sense since you feel unable to to share your neediness with because you think her too fragile to take it which is probably why you keep getting that niggling little feeling like the next new person you meet might be 'it'. You said you trust and it's very easy to trust a friend but by the way you've gone about trying to emotionally cheat, you don't love her. 

I'm attacking you, I'm attacking what you said-

"By the way, I just got laid. It's after moments like these that I see you for what you really are, succubus."

 It's gross, it's disgusting and it's not on me that you're like this. You don't even respect your relationship. 

I think it's much more disgusting what you do, trying to dig into e-people's personal lives to make them miserable when you have no evidence that they've done anything wrong. I'm inclined to think you're not just malicious and ugly, but also dumb as fuck. I think you actually believe what you say, which is hilariously tragiocomic by this point.

 I think you're just mad that someone has called you out on your bullshit. This really is a "Not me, YOU" moment for you and it's hilarious.

Did you forget how you bragged about fucking a married man before? I don't have any moral qualms about cheating or loyalty (I cheated myself before) but I find it kind of pathetic that you come here and vomit your own shame and self-hatred on others because you are unable to cope with how disgusting you find yourself to be, figure out how to deal with it through therapy instead of having BPD meltdowns with strong emotional language attacking people for things you did, talking to yourself through others, it looks psychotic and awkward.

Really? I thought that might be the case. By the way, Lena thinks I'm you. I'm running out of ways to tell that malicious clown of a person I'm not.

Lmao you're a maggot

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Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 

Agreed, that's disgusting.

Is it? I think it's romantic. I think I'm romantic. Hopelessly so. Do you not crave for a soulmate who understands you deeply? Shallow girl.

I'd say you have already found your soulmate. His name is Xadem. He's great. A little retarded, but great. That you ignore him... Well, that's your loss. I'd say Xadem is quite the catch.

 It's not romantic, not at all. 

Don't you have a wife? You're disgusting. You go to online forums to attempt to emotionally cheat on your significant other? Why even be married? The fact that you then use wording like this 

Did you forget how you bragged about fucking a married man before? I don't have any moral qualms about cheating or loyalty (I cheated myself before) but I find it kind of pathetic that you come here and vomit your own shame and self-hatred on others because you are unable to cope with how disgusting you find yourself to be, figure out how to deal with it through therapy instead of having BPD meltdowns with strong emotional language attacking people for things you did, talking to yourself through others, it looks psychotic and awkward.

Unfortunately for you, I've never cheated. Maybe you're not able to understand that the one that should feel shame is the one that's already married and supposed to be in a committed relationship?

Doubtful, BPD are disloyal by statistic.

Doubt all you want~

I didn't brag about fucking a married man, as I'd only broken up the marriage after seeing how depressed and emotionally abused a friend was, and even then it was just me saving every text he'd sent begging me to fuck him while convincing my friend to file the divorce. He was a furry and i would never fuck a furry.

Cope, you did it because you were desperate for validation and could not stand that your friend is in a relationship while you were alone and discarded by the guys you were hoping that they will choose you. Also having done this leaves you very little space to talk about others cheating etc. You are trying to make it seem like he's hitting on you to cover your desperate attempt to flirt with Legga (you made the posts etc) and get some supply from him. I can tell you are starved of bpd supply but also want to save face by turning it on him LOL

I made the posts calling out Legos for being an emotional cheating maggot after he implied that he needed to be fucked to see me for what i really was, a "succubus". Which sounds very Claude Frollo. Gross.

Again gross, this obsession you've got is getting out of hand. Seek help.

 

The only other time i can think about is Tryp telling people that i fucked a married man while leaving out information to make it seem more scandalous, like the fact that they were separated in an amicable manner and he had told me as much when we first started getting to know each other, or the fact that I'd meet his wife(which did indeed feel weird calling her that even if they were separating) and she finally told me why they were splitting. 

press x for doubt

you repeatedly shown that you aspire to be some sort of femme fatale who snatches men from others but end up here crying about how they dumped you LOL

Press it all you want, I know who I am and what I'm capable of and I'd never get into a relationship with a cheater. How you get em is how they leave you and i believe Karma is a thing. 

The only thing that looks psychotic and awkward is a seething manlet on a puppet. Cope and get therapy lmao

I hope one day you will love yourself enough to not have to lower yourself to breaking relationships to drag down others to your misery and feel good about yourself for a week before you fall into despair again

I hope one day you find the courage to say this not on a puppet but on your main(if we're to believe you aren't Lego, but i doubt it) imagine trying to hide like this and attempting to attack others and then it still falling flat. Cringe, i couldn't.

 

By the way, I just got laid. It's after moments like these that I see you for what you really are, succubus.

 Like it's my fault you're out here doing this, rather than it just being you completely unwilling to take responsibility for something you've just made up in your empty little head? You're as deep as a cookie sheet. 

Stop projecting your gross feelings onto women and then blaming them for it, you miserable fucking worm.

You desperately throwing yourself at every man and clinging on them like a parasite makes this come across as less honest.

I'd love to know which men I'm throwing myself at, gimme a list pls

 Everytime a man comes here you try to play it tsundere by attacking em and stalking them and making 1000 threads, its like two forces are fighting in you, desperation to be loved and to look like you are strong?

inb4 you are legga, jealous, cope etc

 Where's the list? Can you link threads? If I've made threads in the thousands it should be easy to link right? 

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Lenalee said:
Oh look, it's the same cope every rejected man stutters out "oh y-yeah? Well YOU'RE Ugly!!"

Are you actually retarded? Did you read what I said at all?

I don't need to work on picking anything up from your posts, they're all trash and you're not worth getting to know past this.

Clearly you didn't. You just form your opinions based on superficial impressions and make-believe, like a stupid person.

I think it's curious you're so intent on attacking my relationship with my wife. I just said I love my wife and trust her. Why is that such a big problem for you? I mean, if you're so thick-headed you haven't figured out by now that I'm not attracted to you, you never will.

She can't stand that you have a relationship with your wife based on trust and love while she never experienced those things. All she has experienced was toxicity and negativity and discard, so she's now coming at you to destroy it? It's a common theme in thirty year old chicks though, bitter and abused and used by so many men, looking around and seeing people actually have healthy loving relationships, then looking at her own life etc

I think it's much more disgusting what you do, trying to dig into e-people's personal lives to make them miserable when you have no evidence that they've done anything wrong. I'm inclined to think you're not just malicious and ugly, but also dumb as fuck. I think you actually believe what you say, which is hilariously tragiocomic by this point.

It's not malice as much as misery loves company, if she makes you as lonely, paranoid and depressed as she is, then she can tell herself that it's normal to be that way and people around her are not doing better etc

Did you forget how you bragged about fucking a married man before? I don't have any moral qualms about cheating or loyalty (I cheated myself before) but I find it kind of pathetic that you come here and vomit your own shame and self-hatred on others because you are unable to cope with how disgusting you find yourself to be, figure out how to deal with it through therapy instead of having BPD meltdowns with strong emotional language attacking people for things you did, talking to yourself through others, it looks psychotic and awkward.

Really? I thought that might be the case. By the way, Lena thinks I'm you. I'm running out of ways to tell that malicious clown of a person I'm not.

Hahah sorry for using you as the fall guy but not really my fault either, they decided that I am Legga. I want to find out if I am self-aware enough to hide my identity long enough (most people blow their shit instantly with speech patterns etc). 

 It's like watching a man give his cumsock a congratulatory pat on the back

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She can't stand that you have a relationship with your wife based on trust and love while she never experienced those things.

Starting to think you're right. It's like talking to a stone wall. I just told her that I'm not attracted to her and that I love my wife, and she keeps going on repeat-loop on, and on, and on. It's really like it doesn't even register.

Hahah sorry for using you as the fall guy but not really my fault either, they decided that I am Legga. I want to find out if I am self-aware enough to hide my identity long enough (most people blow their shit instantly with speech patterns etc). 

No worries, actually it seems almost like a theme. Do you have other names that people think are me, because I think a lot of people seem to be deciding that I'm using a bunch of names here. I think it was a joke started by TC or something, but somehow people like Lena the clown started buying into it.

Everytime a man comes here you try to play it tsundere by attacking em and stalking them and making 1000 threads, its like two forces are fighting in you, desperation to be loved and to look like you are strong?
This is so spot-on. She does that shit with everyone? What the fuck lmfao, that's so sad.
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last edit on 11/1/2021 3:39:05 PM
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She can't stand that you have a relationship with your wife based on trust and love while she never experienced those things.

Starting to think you're right. It's like talking to a stone wall. I just told her that I'm not attracted to her and that I love my wife, and she keeps going on repeat-loop on, and on, and on. It's really like it doesn't even register.

At the beginning I just saw you two arguing and thought nothing of it, typical stuff, then I noticed she keeps bashing you and replying to eveyr post of yours, then I was like aha she must have a crush or whatever

Then I saw how she sperged over you implying she's hitting on you (going as far as to claim rape and "gross" in typical BPD tumblrina fashion), then it kinda cemented the thought in my head.

She has been groveling and moping around alot lately due to being discarded by her BPD FP and being low on BPD fuel, clutching on anybody who could potentially save her from this low supply nightmare. She might be attracted to you but is too autistic and insecure to hit on you directly so she follows you around threads and bashes you etc

She got triggered by you implying that she's hitting on you because she feels exposed and vulnerable over it

I think she should just grow her lady nuts and make a move on you directly, this is quite sad and pathetic, but her fear of rejection is understandable given how many men stuck around and returned her feelings

Hahah sorry for using you as the fall guy but not really my fault either, they decided that I am Legga. I want to find out if I am self-aware enough to hide my identity long enough (most people blow their shit instantly with speech patterns etc). 

No worries, actually it seems almost like a theme. Do you have other names that people think are me, because I think a lot of people seem to be deciding that I'm using a bunch of names here. I think it was a joke started by TC or something, but somehow people like Lena the clown started buying into it.

I think it's just Lena cuz she has been waiting for you to reply to her.

Everytime a man comes here you try to play it tsundere by attacking em and stalking them and making 1000 threads, its like two forces are fighting in you, desperation to be loved and to look like you are strong?
This is so spot-on. She does that shit with everyone? What the fuck lmfao, that's so sad.

 This is nothing, I have witnessed her give attention to guys like Cav Matrix etc, she's down bad.

Overall my verdict is that she resents that you are happy in your relationship and not responding to her flirting, can't stand that you don't need her, can't stand people being happy and having succesful relationships because her romantic life is a repeated pain and disappointment movie, and doesn't know what to do pull you either. For someone who aspires to be a Jezebel she's quite bad at flirting and seduction, she should buy some online courses for it.

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I can't really demonstrate it very quantitatively. However, I rarely, if ever, see you concede anything. I'm also inclined to take your response as further evidence. I think you understand that, in order to get anywhere in a conversation, you should start from somewhere where you do agree.

Wait why? 

I understand going at it from a point of following the same rules of discourse, if that counts as an agreement then yeah that's sensible, but if two people are going at it from opposite viewpoints then the only room for concession is to seek it out through continued discussion. 

Yeah, you could call it rules of discourse. It's what they alternatively call shared reality, it's fairly a well-understood concept. If you both agree that poverty is bad and trust scientific literature, then you can somewhat objectively argue what kind of a society is better for poor people within the context of those things you agree on.

If you don't agree that poverty is bad and don't trust scientific literature, then you have to form another basis for that discussion.

"Poverty exists, yes or no?" 

I'm more of the idea that getting the ideas out there is what can provide more prompts, and that keeping it civil will often not yield even 20% of what's there but rather what they'd prefer to show. As long as the two have a similar set of rules they're abiding by and the topic itself isn't derailing too often I don't really see the issue over going at a subject without mutual ground beyond both otherwise seeking to find it in the other naturally overtime. 

Again, as we see here with Spatial, having the combination of an antagonist and cheerleaders comes out like Good Cop/Bad Cop, it pushes at the edges and allows us to see that much more than if it'd just been one or the other. As we've otherwise watched of him in the past if it's just supply he'll say everything in a 'Safer' fashion, while if it's just an antagonist he shuts down. 

However, establishing a concrete basis or a metric that can be pointed to, in conversations with you, has been difficult in my experience.

Convenient. 

From what I've seen of his behavior, if he isn't pushed while simultaneously being supported by another party he'll keep what his true meaning is close to his chest. He needs to feel challenged in order to find that spark that gets him typing and he needs cheerleaders in order to keep that steam alive. At multiple points in this topic he's tried to leave important portions intentionally vague while practically leaning on the 'common sense' fallacy through implication to do most of the heavy lifting for him. 

In my experience, SpatialMind seems more certain than I would be, given the amount of supporting data. However, I'd say he seems more willing to change his mind than you and attempts to reason through evidence by pointing to objective things.

For the sake of argument, where have you seen him change his mind, and which supporting data? I'm at the very least not recalling times he's really been that way (beyond the short term towards a woman that inevitably reverts when she figures out more over who he really is). 

I'd argue that the presence of stubbornness doesn't negate from accuracy, but rather than it is mutually exclusive. Two stubborn people butting heads doesn't suddenly mean both are wrong or that even necessarily that the less accommodating person isn't arguing the correct points otherwise. 

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