The opposite.
Too superficial. It's unchallenging and unproductive. Plus anti machiavellian af.
I like NPD mommies cause they're man-eaters, although most of them are cum buckets.
I want to dom- the man eaters, like that's the whole point. But evidently it's not going well.
I get shy with maneaters/npd mommies cause they overuse explosive flattery, it's kinda disarming.
I wonder what can counter that.
I get shy with maneaters/npd mommies cause they overuse explosive flattery, it's kinda disarming.
I wonder what can counter that.
What is it about the flattery that's so disarming?
I usually see compliments fuck with people who are used to beating themselves up, as they get stuck in a clash between how good it felt to be recognized positively and over how they can't allow themselves to agree with it.
Cause besides my shy reaction I actually see "people" like that as graceless and below shit ideologically wise.
Being positively acknowledged and reaffirmed by shit instead of hated, proves that you haven't made your superiority and intentions clear.
Flattery in general is more useless than insults/baits/attacks cause it doesn't challenge you to improve, it empowers you and keeps you secure in your current status.
It doesn't feel good cause I don't appreciate the source it stems from in simpler terms.
Cause besides my shy reaction I actually see "people" like that as graceless and below shit ideologically wise.
Are you sure the ideology didn't form as a symptom of your response to these people?
Being positively acknowledged and reaffirmed by shit instead of hated, proves that you haven't made your superiority and intentions clear.
It's just them affirming your looks or whatever, it's generally not this complicated.
If you want to be hated though that's not very hard. It doesn't take doing anything more than wearing a douchey t-shirt to get people rattled these days.
Flattery in general is more useless than insults/baits/attacks cause it doesn't challenge you to improve, it empowers you and keeps you secure in your current status.
It could just as much reaffirm the path someone's on, rather than giving them the impression that they can relax and take a break. If someone began getting compliments after they'd begun working out, they might stick to the new routine from the positive affirmation confirming a part of why they were doing it in the first place.
I tend to just question what it is about them that led to the flattery in the first place, rather than handle all flattery as if it were the same.
It doesn't feel good cause I don't appreciate the source it stems from in simpler terms.
It's still confirmation that something you're doing would elicit that sort of attention.
So I was returning from the gym just a hour ago or so. I have the habit of wearing mask like ray ban sunglasses at night and a black shirt, and I was passing by that coffee shop and there was a group of drunk / stupid not sure which NPD mommies.
Around 20 years old main age? Idk. Didn't notice cause I get shy when women cat call me. (inb4 u beta u no sigma male blah blah) kys
And they started doing "wuuuuu wuuuuu" "hey hey" like trying to get my attention, doing other provocative gestures and giggling.
I un ironically turned red and was suppressing my laughter. They noticed immediately and continued calling me flattering things but in a very aggressive tone.
I didn't like the experience at all, if it was a group of dudes I would had beat them up. But with women I become super shy and lose my shit if they do that, that's why I try to be dismissive/cold/egotistical when they are around cause if they start complimenting me I turn red like a tomato.
That was before I was depressed at least, when I became depressed I started looking down on them with contempt due to my bad experience with my former NPD mommies. So that was shutting off the shyness.
But now that's cured the shyness returned and idk what to do.
Lol.
You like to play Superman when in fact in real life you are just a shy timid introverted retarded boy who turns into a little kid when catcalled by woman? Lol..
I believe your mental age is super underdeveloped. Someone normal would have stopped and said hi, laughing along with them, maybe say thank you. Anything, but definitely not get shy? How old are you? Aren't you on your 20's? You are a fully grown adult you retard. Lmao
"Fuck you aizen for getting catcalled by girls and orbited by NPD mommies when they ignore my stinky existence for so many years now" Copy pastes his PUA red pill books and calls Aizen a beta
Phew, I'm glad actual betas like you exist. Even if I'm shy with maneater aggressive women I can feel alpha cause of you.