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What is love?


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What is it? Why is it important, and/or do we need it, or can we live without it forever? Maybe only people 25+ should answer because that’s getting into old territory, so you can see that life only gets harder and that might influence the answer. 

For me, I want love, I felt like I needed it my entire life, but I don’t really believe in it because I haven’t really seen it. I’ve felt what I thought was love, but if it was actually love, wouldn’t I pursue it? But I feel it is unnecessary because I already have a good thing going, so why ruin that? I miss people nearly to death, but the more I converse, the less I miss them and the more I feel like I should just get married already, which means pushing away what could be love. I don’t know what love is, but if I am going to waste my life chasing it, I should at least try and figure it out, so please help. Thanks.

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Love is a trick our hormones play on us, so our species won't eat itself  :D

For me, that doesn't make it any less desirable. I LOVE love. But I know what it is, so if I think I'm feeling it, and it turns out there's a yucky manipulator (rather than my own nature) controlling the trick, I know enough to turn it off and get the fuck outta Dodge.

As far as friendship, partnership and marriage, knowing that our hormones play tricks on our perception, we need to look for people who would be well suited to running a household as if it were a business. And hell yes, I mean check resumes, make sure your potential husband/friend/partner is solvent, and able to take care of his/her own shit before you let him near yours.

Add looks into it if you plan on reproducing (I can't believe you let that ugly disease infected Turk father your kid...smh.)

If you're asking if you should marry Chapo, the answer is fuck no lol

Tbh, he seems stable enough financially, and he's reasonably good looking.

But he's an addict, with a likely PD or neurodivergence of some sort at the heart of his addiction. So fuck him silly if that's what you want to do. But don't count on him to be a good partner or a good dad. Most addicts are not to be trusted if there is anything they can sell within 50 feet of them. They'll pick your pockets and rob you blind to pay for their habits.

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What is it? Why is it important, and/or do we need it, or can we live without it forever? Maybe only people 25+ should answer because that’s getting into old territory, so you can see that life only gets harder and that might influence the answer. 

It's seriously concerning that you're so afraid of being alone that you'd marry 'a homeless guy'. 

The irony is that those who are older are more likely to have led a successful relationship at least at one point in their lives, while younger people are more likely to seem foolhardy and confused from a lack of experience and/or success. 

 
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Xena said: 

And hell yes, I mean check resumes, make sure your potential husband/friend/partner is solvent, and able to take care of his/her own shit before you let him near yours.

CS plans on being the provider, as either a lawyer or the president, hence why she's willing to take up homeless people if her SC prospects fail. 

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Xena said: 

Love is a trick our hormones play on us, so our species won't eat itself  :D

For me, that doesn't make it any less desirable. I LOVE love. But I know what it is, so if I think I'm feeling it, and it turns out there's a yucky manipulator (rather than my own nature) controlling the trick, I know enough to turn it off and get the fuck outta Dodge.

As far as friendship, partnership and marriage, knowing that our hormones play tricks on our perception, we need to look for people who would be well suited to running a household as if it were a business. And hell yes, I mean check resumes, make sure your potential husband/friend/partner is solvent, and able to take care of his/her own shit before you let him near yours.

Add looks into it if you plan on reproducing (I can't believe you let that ugly disease infected Turk father your kid...smh.)

If you're asking if you should marry Chapo, the answer is fuck no lol

Tbh, he seems stable enough financially, and he's reasonably good looking.

But he's an addict, with a likely PD or neurodivergence of some sort at the heart of his addiction. So fuck him silly if that's what you want to do. But don't count on him to be a good partner or a good dad. Most addicts are not to be trusted if there is anything they can sell within 50 feet of them. They'll pick your pockets and rob you blind to pay for their habits.

 I just need someone to take care of my babies and travel with me and protect me. Chapo seems good for most of those. Maybe not the protection part, but I’ll explain what that means when it matters.

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Xena said: 

But he's an addict, with a likely PD or neurodivergence of some sort at the heart of his addiction. So fuck him silly if that's what you want to do. But don't count on him to be a good partner or a good dad. Most addicts are not to be trusted if there is anything they can sell within 50 feet of them. They'll pick your pockets and rob you blind to pay for their habits.

i will never steal from her. Thats ridiculous you dumb bitch.

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LOL so Med gave you all that $$ willingly? Out of the goodness of her... w/e?

Sure  ~

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Xena said: 

LOL so Med gave you all that $$ willingly? Out of the goodness of her... w/e?

Sure  ~

 She gave it to him for sex. That’s a fair exchange, although the prices were a bit low for my taste.

Plus, she isn’t as cool or smart as me. I have a prenup already ready to be signed that goes over everything, including money stuff.

I’ll be handling the cash and will give each of us an allowance each week/month, depending on what we want. He will have his own account, I’ll have mine, we will have one for all of the money with only my name on it because all of the money I earn will go there.

Then we will have to figure out what we want to invest in, how much we want to put into a 15 year CD. We will have a vacation account for all expenses that will be a percentage of the money in another account that gets switched to our vacay account each month.

We will also have a charity, which is where most of our travel money will come from, but only if we plan to do charity work while we are there. 

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SC chicks seem to have a lot of money and a lot of mental illness. 

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ddddddd said: 

SC chicks seem to have a lot of money and a lot of mental illness. 

 CS is like the best person in the world, i cant wait until she moves in with me within a couple weeks

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