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QuietBeef said:
Depends how they go about it. I mean, can discussing conceptions of gender, in general, really be compared to teaching the bible? Theology is perfectly welcome in schools as long as no particular faith is being presented as fact. Gender should be no different. It's one thing to tell a child that scientific evidence exists for something for which it doesn't, or to openly push a political agenda. It's entirely another to tell them that gender is not the same as sex, and to present the possibility that they are free to choose their lifestyle, related to it, regardless of sex.

I don't think gender discussion or religion should be within the domain of elementary schooling—best left for the parents or for middle school should the parents be incompetent. I understand not everyone will agree with this, but I think its good to let children exist in some semblance of innocence before the onset of puberty and everything that it brings.

I guess if you believe in innocence....

But that rather nebulous idea aside, the fact is, children are sponges, and they're consuming ideas either way.  Whether we sit them down and have a serious and well thought out talk about gender or not, they'll still be internalizing the ideas about it that surround them.  I feel like the real question here is whether we want them to have a more controlled or uncontrolled relationship with the concept, whether this is an area we want to steer to some degree, or simply let it happen however it does.

As TC pointed out, sex ed is a perfect example.  For ages we've thrown the responsibility for that very delicate and important area of understanding onto the discretion of individual parents, under the banner of it being "inappropriate" for children, or for a school setting.  And look what we've gotten for it.  Generation after generation of people wildly uneducated or miseducated in their own bodies, and in how to treat others' bodies and their minds in relation to it.  A failing of education that has had real world consequences for countless people.  If there's one thing I've learned from growing up in a long line of professional educators, parents are not teachers.  And they shouldn't be expected to be.

I think it's well past time we reconsidered what school can mean to our society.  And our ideas about the "innocence" of the young.

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ddddddd said: 

I don't fuck with American radical feminists though and I don't fuck with any extremism like collective guilt movements etc. Victimism is bad. Abusing people for who they are is bad. Everybody chiiiiillll. 

Radical feminists are rare though, far right people are way more common and even radical muslims.

Not in Portland, Seattle, Madison, Atlanta, anywhere in California, anywhere between east Pennsylvania and New Hampshire, Denver, Miami, etc. Large US cities tend to be hubs for liberalism in all of its varieties. You're probably right about there being more nationalists than radical feminists, but radical Muslims? Haven't heard about those in a while.

Even in major cities that are generally considered leftist, what percentage of the population would you suspect are radical feminists, as opposed to other varieties of feminism or those who are simply politically disinterested or on the right?

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I don't accept homosexuality, and couldn't be arsed to care about some dudes sexuality

How do you manage to do both at once? lol

 I'm very intuitive so when I write, I sometimes say things for intuitive minds. There is a difference between what people say and what they actually mean, though I think a 5 year old can understand what I wrote there. 

If not let me know.

Pretty sure anyone with an ounce of reading comprehension would see this as a contradictory statement. 

 How so ?

I don't accept homosexuality - I'm not a homosexual and I don't plan to partake in it.

I couldn't be arsed to care about some dudes sexuality - Their sexuality doesn't apply to me and I honestly don't care what they do in the bedroom. 

Very simple.

Do you understand how "not accept" has a different implication from "not partake"?  Was the intention merely to say that you're not homosexual yourself, or was it meant as a stance on the broader concept?

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Turncoat said:

Her post over your contradictory statement shows, at minimum, three people recognizing the error you made.

I'd reckon that makes her the programmer, while the other 2 are the programmed.

I'm flattered that you see me as so powerful.

 

You don't have to be a homosexual yourself to accept it as a concept, and it sounds like if you were made to think about 'some dudes sexuality' that you would be 'arsed'.

 lol As a concept ? Sure. I can only accept and reject what's real.

I don't accept pedophillia either. What's the problem ?

Are you...  suggesting that pedophilia isn't real?

Is Jim a simulation? >.>

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HA HA HA. 

Ask me another question.

 I'm actually confused.  Is this post meant to imply that you obviously do or obviously don't?

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HA HA HA. 

Ask me another question.

 I'm actually confused.  Is this post meant to imply that you obviously do or obviously don't?

He won't answer, he has overreached too far already. 

Poor guy, always looking at the exit. 

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ddddddd said: 

I don't fuck with American radical feminists though and I don't fuck with any extremism like collective guilt movements etc. Victimism is bad. Abusing people for who they are is bad. Everybody chiiiiillll. 

Radical feminists are rare though, far right people are way more common and even radical muslims.

They aren't that rare in the US depending on where you live, and so goes the US so too does the world. 

 Really?  Please point me in the direction of some radical feminists. lol

Pretty much any liberal town with a college nearby's going to have it's share. 

I only really had that presence quiet down in my life once I left school. 

 Liberal colleges are not the bulk of this country. : P

I was just saying they aren't that rare. 🤷

Nor do a lot of those women probably remain radical feminists. College kids tend to be a bit more gung-ho about their political beliefs.

I disagree beyond them potentially tuning down the radical element a few notches. They tend to hold onto their perspectives, but they end up jaded and tired of the world after seeing enough of it. 

Check the leftists that get too easily triggered by the right, there's a good number of these. 

I mean, for fucks sake, the "hippie generation" destroyed the planet. lol  I think you're assuming they exist in greater numbers than they do because the last time you were really actively social in your life, you were at a liberal college.  That is not the world.

I'd say this poll is somewhat accurate for the spread of political opinion where I was going to school: 

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I heard a surprising amount of republican sentiments where I went, but that made the radfems louder. 

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QuietBeef said:
The fact is, formative propaganda is fundamentally unavoidable. Children will consume the ideas around them, they can't live in a vacuum. I'd even say it's uncontrollable to a degree, without going full-on 1984. It makes sense to me that society looks for reasonable ways to tailor it. Obviously we can't just go around banning ideas willy nilly. It seems to me that the more sound option, is to ensure that certain ideas do reach them at all.

As I'd said earlier in the topic, if children are given a variety of media sources it'll inspire their creativity and the room to question the writers, while if all the works have something in common it will just package that as if it were 'normal', hence the concept of 'normalizing' something. 

I think the only way out of formative hardening is to throw variety at it, as then whatever hardens is more like a gumbo of unrelated subject matter rather than a thrall of culture purely. 

It is usually college, yes. I've seen it in some of the more well-off highschools as well. My point was not that theology classes happen in elementary school. lol Merely explaining why I think your comparison of progressive gender discussion to bible study is inaccurate.

How is it inaccurate from saying colleges teach theology? Colleges also teach feminism. 

I was just responding to "Theology is perfectly welcome in schools as long as no particular faith is being presented as fact". 

I'd argue that maybe we should. As long as it's presented realistically and responsibly. Disorder is a far end of the mental/behavioral spectrum, but it is a spectrum nonetheless. One that reflects on all our minds, that can be used to help most people, disordered or not, understand their mental faculties and be better adjusted to life. In the same strain, I'd argue that gender discussion itself, from a progressive and tolerant standpoint, applies to most or all people, even if they aren't full-blown transgender. Hence, we obviously shouldn't simply be telling kids they're probably trans (which I doubt anyone is doing : P), but an open-minded discussion of gender and what it means to our identity and lifestyle, is a perfectly reasonable thing to have with young people who are figuring out themselves, the world, and their place in it, and are otherwise inevitably being bombarded by the rigid ideas of whatever environment they're growing up in.
The mere presentation of these ideas is enough to get them to potentially model off of it, especially if it's learned about alongside their peers. 

If someone popular in the class who otherwise wasn't naturally trans ends up modeling after the transtrender movement from these lesson plans for example, that class could end up with multiple people crossdressing as an aspect of said popularity. While it could be argued to just be 'a phase', it could just as easily lock into their psyche during these years through peer proliferation. 

Doctors are supposed to not present disorders this openly as possibilities at people so that they won't risk adopting a nurtured variant of it, having it 'explain everything' as they begin to model off of it adaptively. Media's always had a hand in this, having people think one year that they're sociopaths ala Sherlock for example, but the difference there is that the belief of being a Sociopath is otherwise regarded by enough people as cringe, rather than status quo, and that how many will choose to handle being trans risks chemical intervention on people who can't be tested as thoroughly as other more well known disorders. 

It's effectively teaching kids not that it's okay to be trans, but that it's 'normal' to be trans, and it's liable to become the next furry movement if we don't keep a careful eye on it right now

I can't speak to Fairly Odd Parents or Family Guy, but despite being generally competent, I'd hardly say characters like Beth, Marge, and Francine aren't without flaws.

All five of them fall within the perfectionist archetype as their 'flaw', with Beth and Lois being the only trope twists among them (Lois being a rage monster, but not until multiple seasons passed when they felt it was 'safe', and Beth's wanderlust that people could just as easily blame on Jerry). 

It's easier to market flaws when they appear on the surface level as a strength, otherwise they typically handle it as a one episode fluke with status quo re-established after the dust settles. It's one thing to write flawed female characters, that can be done as long as they feel enough of the cast is functional, but they cannot be centerpiece to the main cast, like a wife to the main character or the token female in the group, without people taking it as either a role model risk or a veiled attempt at sneak-dissing the entire demographic. 

That said, I mostly agree with your point. The logic of having equally flawed and depthy characters is obviously sound, and I could even bring up more issues with not doing it. However, I also I think many shows and movies do make that happen, and simply fly under the radar in discussions like this, because it's easier to think of examples of the problem, than simply a decently written character who also happens to be a member of a socially oppressed group.
Which ones? 

Community is a prime example, in many ways that show could be defined by its flawed social underdog characters, and it was quite a successful show. The fact that failure to create these kinds of characters has become a noticeable pattern at all is an issue, but I don't think that issue is representative of media, or the political situation, nor do I think it'll become such.
Annie was given perfectionism, a 'safe' flaw as I stated above, and Britta was presented originally as a 'cool' person who ends up only being flawed with... being uncool? 

It's basically Lois and Meg from Family Guy, trope-wise. It's still within the formula, and seeing how Community and Rick & Morty are both Harmon pieces with a perfectionist flaw-set on their female leads he's clearly following a formula that is safer. 

That being said I still appreciate the character writing in that show, but it doesn't negate the premise. 

Bad writing is bad writing, and we have different phases of it depending on the social climate of the time. I'm not too worried about us getting past this particular media hurdle.

There is good writing within bad constraints, and that's my problem with it. 

Risk is always present.

It's one thing to buy Hot Topic clothes, it's another to consider drastically changing your body. 

To be clear I'm not saying kids'll be taking hormones before they're 18 by this logic, but if it hardens early enough as a matter of nurture then they essentially are, even if not literally at that point in the timeline. If they've lived their entire lives trying 'to be cool' as the other gender it's all they'll know by the time they're adults, which on one hand's useful for gender liquidation but on the other's enough to potentially set us back if too many people end up doing it and regretting it as a result of childhood modeling. 

We shouldn't be pushing this as 'normal' at least until we have a more thorough way of testing for it. Acceptance is fine, but unlike homosexuality for instance where it's more clearly definable and testable, once this turns entirely normalized it risks turning popular. 

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I don't accept homosexuality, and couldn't be arsed to care about some dudes sexuality

How do you manage to do both at once? lol

 I'm very intuitive so when I write, I sometimes say things for intuitive minds. There is a difference between what people say and what they actually mean, though I think a 5 year old can understand what I wrote there. 

If not let me know.

Pretty sure anyone with an ounce of reading comprehension would see this as a contradictory statement. 

 How so ?

I don't accept homosexuality - I'm not a homosexual and I don't plan to partake in it.

I couldn't be arsed to care about some dudes sexuality - Their sexuality doesn't apply to me and I honestly don't care what they do in the bedroom. 

Very simple.

Do you understand how "not accept" has a different implication from "not partake"? 

Feel free to elaborate on your take on the subject.

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Was the intention merely to say that you're not homosexual yourself, or was it meant as a stance on the broader concept?

 Why are you confused ? I laid it down 4 times in a quote even in this post.

I have no reason to like or admire homosexuality because I'm straight. This isn't a problem, and it doesn't default me to a hater.

The reason why I laugh, is because I pretty much stated how I get backlash over it and here we are pages later, I'm being 'hounded' (key word) over some people's sexual preference.

Then in a petty argument, TC wants me to hand him ammunition by asking me if I think homosexuality is on the same level as pedophillia, to that I say HA ! Remove yourself from my presence ! I had to ban TC for playing the pedophile, as I was following protocol to ban pedophiles, I banned him for weeks and days, so it's countless really. Maybe he knows all the emails he created to creep back in.

As for the programmer comment I made. I was being sarcastic, we all know TC was the first to bring it up. You of all people, ( cause of your relationship with him ) You're his #metoo, while he convinces you I'm not making any sense yet you have complaints.

 

 

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Then in a petty argument, TC wants me to hand him ammunition by asking me if I think homosexuality is on the same level as pedophillia, to that I say HA !

You said it yourself, I was simply asking for confirmation. You've already given me more than enough. 

Remove yourself from my presence ! I had to ban TC for playing the pedophile, as I was following protocol to ban pedophiles, I banned him for weeks and days, so it's countless really. Maybe he knows all the emails he created to creep back in.

Objection, relevance? 

You're his #metoo, while he convinces you I'm not making any sense yet you have complaints.

It's nice that you're the only one who presumes to lump us together like that these days, save for Misscomm. 

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