Cut off their phallus, have it dried and ground down to a pulp, then nourish it daily for one month until your feminine spell subsides.
Stop basing your self-worth on scales of comparison, retard.
This sort of thing is only useful if you want to be cutthroat and climb some hierarchical ladders, outside of it, it simply becomes detrimental to your well-being.
In a corporation you want to constantly compare yourself to other people around your position and above as you wish to climb higher and need to surpass them for more money.
In your day to day life nobody gives a fuck. Therefore, trying to instate those random hierarchies is detrimental.
How do I stop comparing myself to others?
1) I delude myself I'm better regardless of what's observed.
2) Detach myself from being a cringe fag that cares about other people's opinions.
3) Actually put in the effort to become better than that which I envy.
4) Change my scale of values in such a way that people around are not better
5) Obtain some different genuine wants and desires, that will simply trump some random scale of social values.(after this go for 3) to make it worth it)
It's upside down, that's my point. Looking at others have and yearning after it. It's simply cringe. To be based is to figure out what you want and get it, ignoring others. Copy-cat attention whore wanting to best others at their own game lmfao, get depression you inferiority complexed cuck.
Stop basing your self-worth on scales of comparison, retard.
This sort of thing is only useful if you want to be cutthroat and climb some hierarchical ladders, outside of it, it simply becomes detrimental to your well-being.
In a corporation you want to constantly compare yourself to other people around your position and above as you wish to climb higher and need to surpass them for more money.
In your day to day life nobody gives a fuck. Therefore, trying to instate those random hierarchies is detrimental.
How do I stop comparing myself to others?
1) I delude myself I'm better regardless of what's observed.
2) Detach myself from being a cringe fag that cares about other people's opinions.
3) Actually put in the effort to become better than that which I envy.
4) Change my scale of values in such a way that people around are not better
5) Obtain some different genuine wants and desires, that will simply trump some random scale of social values.(after this go for 3) to make it worth it)
It's upside down, that's my point. Looking at others have and yearning after it. It's simply cringe. To be based is to figure out what you want and get it, ignoring others. Copy-cat attention whore wanting to best others at their own game lmfao, get depression you inferiority complexed cuck.
This is a feel-good idealistic bs type of view, not really useful.
Social hierarchies are deeply ingrained in the human mind and they influence way more than your own self-esteem level. It affects who people take advice and cues from, it affects how likely is that people will give you what you want (pussy, money, effort towards a goal, or anything). It acts as a short-circuit trigger for compliance and general preference. Beyond ego needs, if you want people to take your word and obey you, social status is much more useful than your expertise or knowledge, as people are dumb and irrational but they understand monkey hierarchy.
Why do you think fucking Arnold Schwarzenegger became governor of California when there were plenty of more competent and experienced candidates were available?
consumed by avarice
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"fighting yourself" is vague. I don't know what's going on in your head. If you asked someone that knows you, like crow, to read your post, she could probably make it more understandable.
Do you not see life as one's struggle against themselves?
No.
Why not?
That's just not life.
That doesn't really answer how it's not though, but I'll take this as reason to answer your question in hopes of it making it easier for you to discuss it.
Why do you see it as that?Even sane people are at odds with their blindspots, habits, quirks, baggage, all that fun stuff. A procrastinator for example could end up fighting themselves over a lack of productivity, or a wuss could challenge themselves to try harder, or a comfort eater could find it more difficult to not gain weight.
We are always at odds with ourselves, as we're how we see the world, but that means we will always inevitably be missing some aspect of it from how we are not capable of everything. Any conflict we encounter could typically be handled differently, in ways that are more beneficial to us, but oftentimes doing something outside of the routine feels harder, even if it's over adopting an easier method.
Even traits inherent within ourselves can clash without a mental disorder being the end results, like if said comfort eater was also obsessed with their figure.
That's true. I struggle with procrastination as well. In fact SC is one of the ways I push back doing my assignments. I wouldn't call that a big part of life, though. It might be a big part of yours, but most of us have to deal with financial problems and problems with other people. The government doesn't take care of us while we play video games all day.
Stop basing your self-worth on scales of comparison, retard.
This sort of thing is only useful if you want to be cutthroat and climb some hierarchical ladders, outside of it, it simply becomes detrimental to your well-being.
In a corporation you want to constantly compare yourself to other people around your position and above as you wish to climb higher and need to surpass them for more money.
In your day to day life nobody gives a fuck. Therefore, trying to instate those random hierarchies is detrimental.
How do I stop comparing myself to others?
1) I delude myself I'm better regardless of what's observed.
2) Detach myself from being a cringe fag that cares about other people's opinions.
3) Actually put in the effort to become better than that which I envy.
4) Change my scale of values in such a way that people around are not better
5) Obtain some different genuine wants and desires, that will simply trump some random scale of social values.(after this go for 3) to make it worth it)
It's upside down, that's my point. Looking at others have and yearning after it. It's simply cringe. To be based is to figure out what you want and get it, ignoring others. Copy-cat attention whore wanting to best others at their own game lmfao, get depression you inferiority complexed cuck.
This is a feel-good idealistic bs type of view, not really useful.
Social hierarchies are deeply ingrained in the human mind and they influence way more than your own self-esteem level. It affects who people take advice and cues from, it affects how likely is that people will give you what you want (pussy, money, effort towards a goal, or anything). It acts as a short-circuit trigger for compliance and general preference. Beyond ego needs, if you want people to take your word and obey you, social status is much more useful than your expertise or knowledge, as people are dumb and irrational but they understand monkey hierarchy.
Why do you think fucking Arnold Schwarzenegger became governor of California when there were plenty of more competent and experienced candidates were available?
I've never said hierarchical thinking and acting doesn't have it's uses. Excessive hierarchical beliefs/ideas on the other hand can have a negative effect on the person.
It's upside down, that's my point. Looking at others have and yearning after it. It's simply cringe. To be based is to figure out what you want and get it, ignoring others. Copy-cat attention whore wanting to best others at their own game lmfao, get depression you inferiority complexed cuck.
Within this mindset, why not just go full blown ascetic?
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Why do you think fucking Arnold Schwarzenegger became governor of California when there were plenty of more competent and experienced candidates were available?
It was a meme:
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you think that it's not obvious that you're a ball of insecurity who's oversensitive and constantly defensive with explosive personalities (like you started trembling with me in our first encounter) but it is
inb4 "grrr grrr i am so alpha u aint shit" in the same thread he is crying like a faggot
anyways getting to the point of your question
no bait-attack here, nothing, just the pure truth you need to understand three things
1) stop trying to delude yourself into confidence by "challenging" people objectively stronger than you mentally/physically/ socially/ financially it won't work never ever
either work on yourself to the point you can win, or don't try at all
2) understand that fear is a natural instinct and the only way to get rid of is bravery, social hierarchies or idealistic introspective confidence are bs
you are programmed to react defensively when a threat shows up, in fact, it could be considered a survival instinct for self- preservation
3) "accepting" a stronger man, might sound better than being afraid of him but in practice it's not better at all
to boil it down to you accepting another man as superior is either: making him your leader/ your bully/ your boss/ or the one that fucks your wife
cuckolding is for example the same version of what you're trying to do, people give up on fear and turn to accepting they are lemmings
many here bring up "comparing yourselves to others is wrong" but that's just cause they are coping with their own insecurities which are possibly more than you, and they just learnt how to cope cause they are mentally ill (have pds)
so now how to cure it
stop thinking, stop feeling, start acting reacting with no filter the more rational you turn something, the more you try to over-rationalize it, the more you will extend facing it, so stop trying to hide behind "reason" it's not reason it's avoidance
everyone, and when I say every-one i mean EVERYONE has at least one thing he is proud about himself (unless he is a lemming like TC) or.. one thing he dislikes about himself
such imperfections increase and depend on how big they get, they get into insecurities, fears, or anxieties
in the end it all boils down to im-perfection
you got to find which imperfections about you bother you the most, and then what you can do is:
1) try to work on them to the point they are decently acceptable
2) try to work on their counter-balancers to the point they aren't anything worth worrying about
after you are finished with that, you can start the comparison, but not comparison to dictate YOU, but comparison to dictate what YOU have INFLUENCE on
you need to intuitively feel that distinction
my two cents loser
It's upside down, that's my point. Looking at others have and yearning after it. It's simply cringe. To be based is to figure out what you want and get it, ignoring others. Copy-cat attention whore wanting to best others at their own game lmfao, get depression you inferiority complexed cuck.
Within this mindset, why not just go full blown ascetic?
You could. But asceticism is gay. Why would you want to?