"fighting yourself" is vague. I don't know what's going on in your head. If you asked someone that knows you, like crow, to read your post, she could probably make it more understandable.
"fighting yourself" is vague. I don't know what's going on in your head. If you asked someone that knows you, like crow, to read your post, she could probably make it more understandable.
Do you not see life as one's struggle against themselves?
Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
"fighting yourself" is vague. I don't know what's going on in your head. If you asked someone that knows you, like crow, to read your post, she could probably make it more understandable.
Do you not see life as one's struggle against themselves?
No.
"fighting yourself" is vague. I don't know what's going on in your head. If you asked someone that knows you, like crow, to read your post, she could probably make it more understandable.
Do you not see life as one's struggle against themselves?
No.
Why not?
Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
"fighting yourself" is vague. I don't know what's going on in your head. If you asked someone that knows you, like crow, to read your post, she could probably make it more understandable.
Do you not see life as one's struggle against themselves?
No.
Why not?
That's just not life. Why do you see it as that?
"fighting yourself" is vague. I don't know what's going on in your head. If you asked someone that knows you, like crow, to read your post, she could probably make it more understandable.
Do you not see life as one's struggle against themselves?
No.
Why not?
That's just not life.
That doesn't really answer how it's not though, but I'll take this as reason to answer your question in hopes of it making it easier for you to discuss it.
Why do you see it as that?
Even sane people are at odds with their blindspots, habits, quirks, baggage, all that fun stuff. A procrastinator for example could end up fighting themselves over a lack of productivity, or a wuss could challenge themselves to try harder, or a comfort eater could find it more difficult to not gain weight.
We are always at odds with ourselves, as we're how we see the world, but that means we will always inevitably be missing some aspect of it from how we are not capable of everything. Any conflict we encounter could typically be handled differently, in ways that are more beneficial to us, but oftentimes doing something outside of the routine feels harder, even if it's over adopting an easier method.
Even traits inherent within ourselves can clash without a mental disorder being the end results, like if said comfort eater was also obsessed with their figure.
Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
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2/1/2021 9:28:19 AM
The problem here is that you're neurotic about how someone might be better than you in some way. Instead of accepting it and not worrying or giving a fuck, you're taking it personally. All the things you mentioned are pretty superficial as well, like more money, better looks. There's something to be said about charisma I think, but that's something that just comes naturally with taking the time to understand people.
tl;dr you shouldn't be looking how to tolerate being around someone who's alpha, you should be fixing the shit that's making you sensitive or jealous.
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2/1/2021 9:39:05 AM