Well tbh, Cavs made it a big thing about how he's into scat play and how he gets off on women eating or rping about eating his shit so it's very likely that he did take you roleplaying with him as flirtation
After cavs perceived roleplay I said " my parents used to joke with me like this" and when he said it was sexual I said "really? You actually see poop as a sexual thing?" He asked me if I was into it and said "no I was joking" yet the incel still insists I was coming on to him.
yes, however, as it showed on the screenshots, I made it abundantly clear it was not sexual, and in fact, I would chalk it up to simple and understandable miscommunication had it only started with him thinking this, however, when you tell someone, over and over and over that this was not sexual, and everyone knows already that this is just your sense of humor, yet they still insist you were coming on to them, that's just pure narcissism. Had he started out thinking this and simply said "oh ok" when the evidence was presented to him it was not as it appeared I would give no shits, which is why I was nice about his confusion at first, but how many times is it that multiple people, can explain to this person that it was not flirting but is just how the person is with everyone, how long and how many times do they get explained this over and over, until the person is just clearly stubbornly thinking what they want to stroke their own ego?
It doesn't really matter what your intent with it was because you were still playing into it.
No it does matter, hence that would determine if it was actual flirting. Never in a million years would I have imagined eating shit would be sexual for another human being, I mean I knew it happened, but that's rare- that's if someone asks you to tickle their feet, and you do with platonic and nonsexual intentions, and the person happened to have a foot fetish and now insists you were flirting- only now, the person insists this to the death despite it now being abundantly clear out were not when maybe at first the mistake would have been understandable.
If the persons intent commiting these actions really mattered, people going to HR and getting fired or suspended for sexual harassment wouldn't really be a thing.
It does matter, that's why you will never in a million years be charged with sexual harassment for talking about balloons with someone if someone has a fucking balloon fetish, or why accidentally showing yourself to someone if obviously an accident, may not get you in trouble, or sending nudes to the wrong person- there IS a line.
Tc and have already said we see you sexualizing us as sexual harassment because (licks ass) isn't 'not sexual'.
Right and Jim gets a pass for calling you his loli every day
It's about how you make others feel, and while yeah it's completely unfair that you should have to watch your actions with others while trying to be friendly with them sucks,
Agreed
doing things and rping things in a sexual way can be seen as flirtation
"Can be seen as" is different than actually being so, especially when it becomes blatantly and painful obvious it was not. In fact, he asked me in public chat to lick his ass to when I was spamming licks ass to everyone, he wants to be all special, I spam the same shit to my aunt. And 80 percent of members here