Don’t get her a fucking zippo lighter buy her cigarettes or whatever she smokes.
Cigarettes are a random gift that will last a moment before it's forgotten, like a bag of chips.
A zippo lighter will never be used.
There are sites like Photobox where you can get your pics made into a picture book, calendar, wall art or mug relatively cheaply. I got a fucking huge canvas of my late cat (cos I’m classy and understated like that) for less than £20. Maybe choose some family pics you really like and get them made into a nice little book, I guess you could even make it yourself cheaper if you’re creative.
