I understand that, but i also understand some parents think of their kids as property and therefore do not believe their child deserves privacy or boundaries.
Has Blanc done things that worry her parents? Yes. Is she undeserving of basic privacy? No.
Blanc's so prone to exaggeration though, and her past narratives about her parents have been all over the place.
How can we even trust Blanc's word here?
I can relate to parents insisting you as their child have no right to privacy or boundaries, as far as having been stalked by my mom to my first apartment. They are a thing. I'm not saying it's to that level, again blanc has don't thing that would worry her parents so it's understandable they want to check in on her that's fine-what isn't fine is she coming to her apartment and finding them there or they physically intruding into her apartment because they paid for it.
I'm being biased, but this is dependency on both sides- blanc and her parents.
Invasive parents are a problem, but the cost of accepting help from your parents is accepting the flaws (within reason) with it. It doesn't make the behavior any better from them, but Blanc has put herself in no position to take exception to it. Your situation is different, you sought independence and had to deal with this anyway, as an autonomous, self-sufficient adult. I would understand more if Blanc were in a situation she couldn't avoid, if she was truly dependent for reasons out of her control. But she could work, she's choosing to live under the thumb of people whose invasiveness she was already well aware of. The lack of boundaries here was her decision as much as theirs, so her complaining about their invasiveness while living under their roof and on their dime, is as silly to me as if they complained about her dependency while continuing to give her exorbitant amounts of money.