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Cavalier said: 

Cavalier said: 

 Well like, they paid for it so it was *their* condo. Blanc was just freeloading there, same as them walking around their own house.

I paid my own rent but yeah it’s just a boundary issue that goes on sometimes it’s not a huge deal but still if you have autonomy and independence don’t take that shit for granted man because having ppl with no boundaries is not ideal 

Blanc said: 

I paid my own rent

 With the allowance that your parents give you?

While I do think that blanc is incredibly spoiled and entitled, the fact that her parents make these sort of demands is kinda off putting. 

If they don't trust her enough to be alone, they shouldn't be giving her these bits of freedom and blanc should either be trying to be independent herself or stop allowing for them to pay for things they can hold over her. 

Whorechata said: 

While I do think that blanc is incredibly spoiled and entitled, the fact that her parents make these sort of demands is kinda off putting. 

If they don't trust her enough to be alone, they shouldn't be giving her these bits of freedom and blanc should either be trying to be independent herself or stop allowing for them to pay for things they can hold over her. 

 She wants to move out and have her own apartment condo, because living with her parents is a violation of her boundaries.

Oh and her parents have to pay for it all. Her parents have every right to make sure that she isn't squandering their money on say - heroin.

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

While I do think that blanc is incredibly spoiled and entitled, the fact that her parents make these sort of demands is kinda off putting. 

If they don't trust her enough to be alone, they shouldn't be giving her these bits of freedom and blanc should either be trying to be independent herself or stop allowing for them to pay for things they can hold over her. 

 She wants to move out and have her own apartment condo, because living with her parents is a violation of her boundaries.

Oh and her parents have to pay for it all. Her parents have every right to make sure that she isn't squandering their money on say - heroin.

 I understand that, but i also understand some parents think of their kids as property and therefore do not believe their child deserves privacy or boundaries. 

Has Blanc done things that worry her parents? Yes. Is she undeserving of basic privacy? No.

Let’s just clarify something here tho 

I was paying for my apartment lol 

and when I said my next place will be xyz, I’m not saying they’re going to pay for it?? Or asking for them to buy me one

like it’s well understood between me and my parents that wherever I move I will be paying for it 

me talking about my boundaries in relationship with them has nothing to do wirh money 

 was just saying I’m the kind of person who likes my privacy and not everyone cares about that sort of thing but 

I personally do prefer a bit more privacy