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Why I only reply to my own topics


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Ok maybe the title is misleading, SOMETIMES I comment on topics I didn't make if it really interests me.

I'm just really busy. I have a job now, I'm not at my parent's or hers we rent our own place and pay for it all. It's a really nice area with plenty to explore so we're out a lot. I have all consuming interests that aren't social in nature therefore I am no longer interested in commenting on drama related threads that many SC posts are.

I'd mostly rather watch youtube or discover new music or podcasts. I don't invest time to any other forum or socuial media whatsoever but I do on this one because idk, force of habit?

When I make a topic I want to start a discussion, and when I reply I'm participating in that discussion. Since it is a topic I created it is something I'm obviously enthused about. Otherwise I'm not inclined to comment for commenting's sake.

 

My grandiose delusions are better than yours.
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I dunno if anyone actually cares whether you comment on other threads or not, this place isn't the best place to be tbh so the less time spent here the better. 

Congratulations on your new job 

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I dunno if anyone actually cares whether you comment on other threads or not, this place isn't the best place to be tbh so the less time spent here the better. 

Congratulations on your new job 

 But why still come yourself if so? A lot of people here decry it but post everyday. I don't decry SC as a whole. I dislike the fixation on social matters that I consider redundant but I like talking about what I like if anybody has a good take. Some people here have good takes. Unfortunately people here will have a good take but then go and do something terrible to someone so there's why it's best to not get too into it.

My grandiose delusions are better than yours.
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I dunno if anyone actually cares whether you comment on other threads or not, this place isn't the best place to be tbh so the less time spent here the better. 

Congratulations on your new job 

 But why still come yourself if so? A lot of people here decry it but post everyday. I don't decry SC as a whole. I dislike the fixation on social matters that I consider redundant but I like talking about what I like if anybody has a good take. Some people here have good takes. Unfortunately people here will have a good take but then go and do something terrible to someone so there's why it's best to not get too into it.

 Like you said, it's a habit but i feel like there's less of a pull nowadays (except for holidays 🙄). It's good for some discussion, I've come to value quite a few people here but the nature of this place, the slow cannibalism staved off only by new or "new" members- it's a bit destructive and definitely not a bad place but certainly not the best place. 

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Yeah and that's only if the new members are actually interesting enough to be worth trolling and going ham over. It's kinda funny when really stupid people come, dox themselves, get exposed for being terrible and never come back tho. 

My grandiose delusions are better than yours.
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You only reply to your own topics from an inability to relate to other people. 

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From what I can see this place feels special, but is nothing special.  It is a bubble outside or within normal life where you find people that are interesting, charismatic, broken, different etc. You can see power dynamics and relationships between people amplified a 100 times and it is very intense. But it is artificial and people that thrive in here could never survive or exist in the real world. They need bubbles. There are many bubbles like this one. It attracts you, because when you are in the bubble it feels special or whole etc, like you are the center or at least a meaningful part of a real world. But when you can exist on the outside you can really see it is just a bubble, not real life, based on lies etc kinda like The Beach with Leonardo DiCaprio. Just not as cool, because in the whole picture, people that need to stay in the bubble just look pathetic and unhappy. 

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You only reply to your own topics from an inability to relate to other people. 

 People with 18, 19 years old are peaking in their narcissism. They think they are the most intelligent, most interesting and hold more knowledge than old people and whatever they do or have been through the younger one thinks he could do much better. 
I never really bothered reading BH’s posts. He is the young kid begging for attention.

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I dunno if anyone actually cares whether you comment on other threads or not, this place isn't the best place to be tbh so the less time spent here the better. 

Congratulations on your new job 

 But why still come yourself if so? A lot of people here decry it but post everyday.

those who do are too invested to quit

i only come here because every other forum i enjoyed died, yet this site has stood the test of time

discord is an option but it has many zoomers and tryhards, most of its users are typically under 18 raging virgins and simps

discord is also trash because of its community guidelines and anyone can create a server, servers aren't remarkable

anyone can create a server in a second means it's a constant PR game if you're a server owner and if you do anything your community does not like, they'll create a new server and ditch you

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You only reply to your own topics from an inability to relate to other people. 

 People with 18, 19 years old are peaking in their narcissism. They think they are the most intelligent, most interesting and hold more knowledge than old people and whatever they do or have been through the younger one thinks he could do much better. 
I never really bothered reading BH’s posts. He is the young kid begging for attention.

I meanwhile both read the guy's posts and met him, he's not just "some teenager" for this deficit. 

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