Sociopath Community

QuietBeef said: 

To answer the question more earnestly... I guess I think the biggest difference is that I feel more akin to all of you than you all seem to feel to eachother.  I see bits of each of you in myself, there's almost no one here that I don't find it relatively easy to identify with on some level.  Most people here talk about SC like it's the zoo, and they're the only human in it, indulging in the spectacle.  I feel like one of the animals.

 I feel fairly akin to most people here, we're all just humans connected by this somewhat irreverent site. Feels kind of like a dysfunctional family to me, and given most if not all of us have dysfunctional families irl maybe we feel comfortable with the dynamics here too. Idk, maybe I'm just projecting. I think being disliked by like everyone probably sets me apart to some degree idk

Crimson said: 

QuietBeef said: 

To answer the question more earnestly... I guess I think the biggest difference is that I feel more akin to all of you than you all seem to feel to eachother.  I see bits of each of you in myself, there's almost no one here that I don't find it relatively easy to identify with on some level.  Most people here talk about SC like it's the zoo, and they're the only human in it, indulging in the spectacle.  I feel like one of the animals.

 I feel fairly akin to most people here, we're all just humans connected by this somewhat irreverent site. Feels kind of like a dysfunctional family to me, and given most if not all of us have dysfunctional families irl maybe we feel comfortable with the dynamics here too. Idk, maybe I'm just projecting.

You're both akin to one another in the obvious way you seem to be attempting to social climb and ingratiate yourselves with others. "I'm just like you. You're just like me. I'm pretending to be vulnerable. Accept me." It comes off disingenuous. What's fueling this?

I think being disliked by like everyone probably sets me apart to some degree idk

 What do you think caused this scenario?

In terms of the big five, I score high on openness (around 70th-80th percentile), middling in extraversion, very low on conscientiousness, very high on neuroticism (90-99th percentile) and very low on agreeableness.

Everybody take this test :

https://openpsychometrics.org/tests/IPIP-BFFM/

Dr_Mengele said: 

Crimson said: 

QuietBeef said: 

To answer the question more earnestly... I guess I think the biggest difference is that I feel more akin to all of you than you all seem to feel to eachother.  I see bits of each of you in myself, there's almost no one here that I don't find it relatively easy to identify with on some level.  Most people here talk about SC like it's the zoo, and they're the only human in it, indulging in the spectacle.  I feel like one of the animals.

 I feel fairly akin to most people here, we're all just humans connected by this somewhat irreverent site. Feels kind of like a dysfunctional family to me, and given most if not all of us have dysfunctional families irl maybe we feel comfortable with the dynamics here too. Idk, maybe I'm just projecting.

You're both akin to one another in the obvious way you seem to be attempting to social climb and ingratiate yourselves with others. "I'm just like you. You're just like me. I'm pretending to be vulnerable. Accept me." It comes off disingenuous. What's fueling this?

I think being disliked by like everyone probably sets me apart to some degree idk

 What do you think caused this scenario?

 It's not disingenuous, but I'm aware people seem to view me as that a lot, and not just people here. I'm not trying to social climb either, I'm quite comfortable being a loner, being anything else for extended periods of time is exhausting :/ what brought it on is probably just that most people seem to find me unfavourable, and that's fine. I'm not being vulnerable by saying any of this in my mind 

Crimson said: 

Dr_Mengele said: 

Crimson said: 

QuietBeef said: 

To answer the question more earnestly... I guess I think the biggest difference is that I feel more akin to all of you than you all seem to feel to eachother.  I see bits of each of you in myself, there's almost no one here that I don't find it relatively easy to identify with on some level.  Most people here talk about SC like it's the zoo, and they're the only human in it, indulging in the spectacle.  I feel like one of the animals.

 I feel fairly akin to most people here, we're all just humans connected by this somewhat irreverent site. Feels kind of like a dysfunctional family to me, and given most if not all of us have dysfunctional families irl maybe we feel comfortable with the dynamics here too. Idk, maybe I'm just projecting.

You're both akin to one another in the obvious way you seem to be attempting to social climb and ingratiate yourselves with others. "I'm just like you. You're just like me. I'm pretending to be vulnerable. Accept me." It comes off disingenuous. What's fueling this?

I think being disliked by like everyone probably sets me apart to some degree idk

 What do you think caused this scenario?

 It's not disingenuous, but I'm aware people seem to view me as that a lot, and not just people here. I'm not trying to social climb either, I'm quite comfortable being a loner, being anything else for extended periods of time is exhausting :/ what brought it on is probably just that most people seem to find me unfavourable, and that's fine. I'm not being vulnerable by saying any of this in my mind 

 i think, and this is just  vague conjecture, that part of the reason why people aren't fond of you here is perhaps because they think that whenever you write a post about your sense of apathy towards forum members, some parts betray  the sense that you seek (undeserved) sympathy for your general isolation, or that you are secretly resentful of them

TPG said: 

Crimson said: 

Dr_Mengele said: 

Crimson said: 

QuietBeef said: 

To answer the question more earnestly... I guess I think the biggest difference is that I feel more akin to all of you than you all seem to feel to eachother.  I see bits of each of you in myself, there's almost no one here that I don't find it relatively easy to identify with on some level.  Most people here talk about SC like it's the zoo, and they're the only human in it, indulging in the spectacle.  I feel like one of the animals.

 I feel fairly akin to most people here, we're all just humans connected by this somewhat irreverent site. Feels kind of like a dysfunctional family to me, and given most if not all of us have dysfunctional families irl maybe we feel comfortable with the dynamics here too. Idk, maybe I'm just projecting.

You're both akin to one another in the obvious way you seem to be attempting to social climb and ingratiate yourselves with others. "I'm just like you. You're just like me. I'm pretending to be vulnerable. Accept me." It comes off disingenuous. What's fueling this?

I think being disliked by like everyone probably sets me apart to some degree idk

 What do you think caused this scenario?

 It's not disingenuous, but I'm aware people seem to view me as that a lot, and not just people here. I'm not trying to social climb either, I'm quite comfortable being a loner, being anything else for extended periods of time is exhausting :/ what brought it on is probably just that most people seem to find me unfavourable, and that's fine. I'm not being vulnerable by saying any of this in my mind 

 i think, and this is just  vague conjecture, that part of the reason why people aren't fond of you here is perhaps because they think that whenever you write a post about your sense of apathy towards forum members, some parts betray  the sense that you seek (undeserved) sympathy for your general isolation, or that you are secretly resentful of them

Irdk tbh, that's kind of in the same vein as what dr m was saying isn't it? I don't think I come across as seeking sympathy, on the contrary I enjoy isolation more and more, tho I'm not isolated irl tbf so I guess it's a bit of a cop out to say I'm seriously a loner really. But also in the same vein as what I said to dr m, I'm aware I come across in ways that don't necessarily correlate to reality, I just don't really think it's an issue tho. I didn't post that comment in order to figure out how to be likable or anything. Hmm people probably perceive me replying at all as belying truth in their perceived contradictions regardless of what I say, but not replying would I think actually be allowing myself to be swayed by external opinion. Anyway, secretly resentful? just because I'm apathetic doesn't mean I don't feel kindly towards pretty much everyone here regardless of passing grievances

Dr_Mengele said: 

QuietBeef said: 

chimpi said: 

How are we similar though?

 Socially stunted,

Are most here socially stunted or non-conformist?

 

high strung, self-obsessed parents, burying our feelings in irony and ill-conceived, frantic attempts at cerebral detachment?

Isn't this one of the more common refrains one would find on tumblr?

 This place is not dissimilar from tumblr, no mater how much people here like to make fun of tumblr. The main difference is just the popular topics of discussion and that SC has a live chat. Otherwise, both are places for people with 0 irl social skills to conglomerate and share any kind of interests.

Crimson said: 

I think being disliked by like everyone probably sets me apart to some degree idk

 You aren't disliked by everyone

PalePeach said: 

Crimson said: 

I think being disliked by like everyone probably sets me apart to some degree idk

 You aren't disliked by everyone

 She needs to think this so she can keep count of how victim she is and keep blaming it on that people are simply misunderstanding her rather than disliking her for her lying and weak manipulation attempts.

Like blanc but less words. 

PalePeach said: 

Crimson said: 

I think being disliked by like everyone probably sets me apart to some degree idk

 You aren't disliked by everyone

It's pity bait, don't fall for it. Even this "loner" shit is meant to draw you in. 

Whorechata said: 

PalePeach said: 

Crimson said: 

I think being disliked by like everyone probably sets me apart to some degree idk

 You aren't disliked by everyone

 She needs to think this so she can keep count of how victim she is and keep blaming it on that people are simply misunderstanding her rather than disliking her for her lying and weak manipulation attempts.

"Wow it's like you understand me, not like those other people who just don't understand me and never will." 

Seen it so many times out of people, it is indeed a tactic.