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You don't jack it when you're dating someone? 

Turncoat said: 

You don't jack it when you're dating someone? 

 nope, I like to keep my libido and stay passionate for my partners, I also now limit the sex to once a week to make it feel special and passionate with her

I usually knock one out earlier in the day so that I can last longer later, otherwise the occasional masturbreak I've found healthier than abstaining. 

It also has me appear less desperate. 

Turncoat said: 

I usually knock one out earlier in the day so that I can last longer later, otherwise the occasional masturbreak I've found healthier than abstaining. 

It also has me appear less desperate. 

 I struggle getting hard if I jack off, the thirst also pushes me to force through social anxiety and talk to girls (trick I learned at the age of 15 from Nofap and PUA community)

MartinLooterKing said: 

Turncoat said: 

I usually knock one out earlier in the day so that I can last longer later, otherwise the occasional masturbreak I've found healthier than abstaining. 

It also has me appear less desperate. 

I struggle getting hard if I jack off

Even hours later? 

the thirst also pushes me to force through social anxiety and talk to girls (trick I learned at the age of 15 from Nofap and PUA community)

I guess I haven't had to worry about that from people usually coming towards me instead. I've mostly had to worry about composure as opposed to starting conversations. 

Turncoat said: 

 

MartinLooterKing said: 

Turncoat said: 

I usually knock one out earlier in the day so that I can last longer later, otherwise the occasional masturbreak I've found healthier than abstaining. 

It also has me appear less desperate. 

I struggle getting hard if I jack off

Even hours later? 

the thirst also pushes me to force through social anxiety and talk to girls (trick I learned at the age of 15 from Nofap and PUA community)

I guess I haven't had to worry about that from people usually coming towards me instead. I've mostly had to worry about composure as opposed to starting conversations. 

 I get turned off by people who come to me and treat them like shit when it happens. I like to feel in complete control

I feel as if my being the one to make the first utterance has me appear to be the one in need, while if they come to me then I'm on some level needed or desired. 

If I'm invading other's spaces, then I'm imposing and from that moment on that much more beholden to them from my having to figure out their narrative. If they're coming to me meanwhile I see it as me having all the cards. 

I see more value in the oasis than the guys drinking from it. 

Turncoat said: 

I feel as if my being the one to make the first utterance has me appear to be the one in need, while if they come to me then I'm on some level needed or desired. 

If I'm invading other's spaces, then I'm imposing and from that moment on that much more beholden to them from my having to figure out their narrative. If they're coming to me meanwhile I see it as me having all the cards. 

I see more value in the oasis than the guys drinking from it. 

 A woman is in control when the guy approaches until she sleeps with him, after the guy gets the sex the balance is on his side. From there on you just let her fight for commitment.

MartinLooterKing said: 

Turncoat said: 

I feel as if my being the one to make the first utterance has me appear to be the one in need, while if they come to me then I'm on some level needed or desired. 

If I'm invading other's spaces, then I'm imposing and from that moment on that much more beholden to them from my having to figure out their narrative. If they're coming to me meanwhile I see it as me having all the cards. 

I see more value in the oasis than the guys drinking from it. 

 A woman is in control when the guy approaches until she sleeps with him, after the guy gets the sex the balance is on his side.

That strongly depends on the sex itself, as I've seen a good number of pussy hunters go hardcore addict singularly with the right snatch. 

If the sex doesn't suck, either of them could find themselves attached to the experience.