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my boyfriend used to completely trash our basement


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food wrappers and crumbs and soda bottles and garbage and cigarette ash and butts and blunt tobacco and dirt everywhere and breaking random shit

drove my ocd fucking craazy I used to clean up after him and he used to get annoyed at me for caring so much....

 

Now he cleans the basement for me 😍 he does a good job too lol

 

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Congrats, you're domesticating him

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Give him head pats, you need to reinforce that behavior. 

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and breaking random shit

Oh, that's, huh. 

Like just bottles, or expensive and sentimental shit? 

 
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and breaking random shit

Oh, that's, huh. 

Like just bottles, or expensive and sentimental shit? 

 

Lol, im not bringing a TV or my laptop in here until he stops breaking shit when we argue about something he is too heated about he's doing better but hasnt completely stopped yet 

most of it has been things that I didnt care about and none of it was my possessions a couple were things I liked that he smashed on the floor or across the room but those things still work luckily

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Why doesn't he act like a real man and hit you instead of those defenseless objects? 

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and breaking random shit

Oh, that's, huh. 

Like just bottles, or expensive and sentimental shit? 

Lol, im not bringing a TV or my laptop in here until he stops breaking shit when we argue about something he is too heated about he's doing better but hasnt completely stopped yet 

This creature wants steroids? 

most of it has been things that I didnt care about and none of it was my possessions a couple were things I liked that he smashed on the floor or across the room but those things still work luckily

This sounds like you justifying his behaviors. 

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last edit on 10/1/2020 5:51:10 PM
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0 votes RE: my boyfriend used to co...

and breaking random shit

Oh, that's, huh. 

Like just bottles, or expensive and sentimental shit? 

 

Lol, im not bringing a TV or my laptop in here until he stops breaking shit when we argue about something he is too heated about he's doing better but hasnt completely stopped yet 

most of it has been things that I didnt care about and none of it was my possessions a couple were things I liked that he smashed on the floor or across the room but those things still work luckily

 I thought we was just being careless but he's actually breaking things out of anger? 

He's effectively throwing tantrums like a child would, red flags, 

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0 votes RE: my boyfriend used to co...

and breaking random shit

Oh, that's, huh. 

Like just bottles, or expensive and sentimental shit? 

 

Lol, im not bringing a TV or my laptop in here until he stops breaking shit when we argue about something he is too heated about he's doing better but hasnt completely stopped yet 

most of it has been things that I didnt care about and none of it was my possessions a couple were things I liked that he smashed on the floor or across the room but those things still work luckily

I thought we was just being careless but he's actually breaking things out of anger? 

He's effectively throwing tantrums like a child would, red flags, 

He is trying to fight off his urge to do more uppers though, isn't he? 

It could be a part of the recovery. 

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food wrappers and crumbs and soda bottles and garbage and cigarette ash and butts and blunt tobacco and dirt everywhere and breaking random shit

drove my ocd fucking craazy I used to clean up after him and he used to get annoyed at me for caring so much....



That’s an addict 

Now he cleans the basement for me 😍 he does a good job too lol

That’s a man in love 

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