the point is why would a healthy loving couple want to introduce any form of toxicity into their relationship
Would it be introducing toxicity into the relationship?
It seems more like attendance to a toxic environment that otherwise provides other nice gains. Unless you see SC actively putting a wedge between the two of you from your relationship being that weak, I don't really see the problem.
You seem insecure that something like SC could rift you two apart.
you're crazy yikes
you do realize that any working psych professional is advised to tell patients to leave toxic behaviors, people and situations behind as quickly as possible right? and all therapy is designed to assist in helping patients to do this?
That strongly varies, strongly, from professional to professional. That's the classic therapy technique when it's just about easy answers, but many forms of therapy that go further than surface level involve exposing the person to their risk environments in ways that they can train themselves to function inside of.
While many advise to not seek out problems, many in the field also push the idea of not running from your problems, that it'd be advisable to face it head on and gain a tolerance towards it. If they didn't, they'd just be enabling chronic avoidance types like Agorophobics.
As is demonstrated within practices such as Exposure Therapy, the key is to have the stressful stimulus be within controlled, safe conditions.
sc provides no gains, you need to learn to live life outside of the internet
It must be providing you with something if you keep coming back to it.
What's to be afraid of when it comes to dragging your bo' here? If you two are strong enough to survive the toxicity of this environment together I don't see the issue.
