Why not two or all three at the same time?
Once you have a reputation, just cut your losses and move on.
They'll never forget, but one can always be redeemed (or knocked down a peg).
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6/10/2020 6:40:22 PM
My take:
1. You talk about yourself too much.
2. People anchored their view of you
3. You care
Once you have a reputation, just cut your losses and move on.
Sounds like people are just close minded.
My grandiose delusions are better than yours.