Sociopath Community

Palepeach said:

Someone's on her first period

Misogynist. 

Turncoat, how would you prefer that Palepeach, Spatial, Turq and others you mentioned respond to people who are hardened in their viewpoints despite previous attempts to enlighten them to a healthier more fair and realistic way of viewing life and other humans, whose opinions they disagree with and have deemed to be in the minority of humankind when compared to everyone else they talk to and what they see represented in the media and in online statistics, that would make them "stronger" in your mind?

If they have previously had arguments with the people they now block or ignore, and during those arguments have come to the conclusion that the other party is hardened in their viewpoints and do not want to see life from a healthier more fair and realistic perspective, what are you supposed to do then? 

And btw, what is it that makes you so sure that you know what is "strengthening" for others, when you are not in their shoes and do not truly understand how their psyche works but can only guess? Have you ever considered that you might be wrong and how you think they should respond wouldn't make them stronger or better or more of a winner, in any sense of those terms, and why or why not?

Turncoat said: 

PalePeach said: 

 

Turncoat said: 

Like really, I don't understand what you get out of it. 

Is it empowering to run away from someone? 

I am above interacting with such filth

No you're not you're just tuning them out from them being too much for you to handle. Why can't you respond to it otherwise with indifference, because something they did personally affected you or something? 

This basically makes them the winner in your interactions with  him  them. 

 Anyone notice somewhere down the line Peach decided to develop this holier-than-thou persona she didn't have when she first joined? It seems like something she adopted here to shield herself from abuse and it's cringe because it's clear she herself doesn't buy her own bs

more questions........

is it better to respond in whatever idealistic way that from your perspective makes them appear "stronger" and that they are "winning" and be inauthentic to their true selves (there is a term for this btw lol it's called "fronting" have you ever heard of it?) better than being authentic?

Also, do you think it is better to live life from the perspective of wanting to appear as strong as possible to others and consistently "winning" at all costs, or is it better to aim to thrive and be happy and live your life the way that you personally find most interesting and fulfilling?

To narcissists and sociopaths, the first option would be very fulfilling to them. but what about everyone else? to everyone else, competition is fun and stimulating but it isn't what their entire life revolves around. Another fun fact is there will always be someone better or worse, with more or less, stronger or weaker than you no one person or even group of people has the most and best of everything. and expanding on that different people have all different perspectives on what is "best" in the first place lol adding even more to the impossibility of having and being the best unless you are the only person alive

Its kind of interesting that TCs call for one person to stop being weak triggered other sensitive and weak members to log in after a long period of inactivity and defend their actions that display inability to handle the trolling and cope with the abuse. Quite a few nerves hit. It would be more useful for yall in the long run to build more mental fortitutde and work on your insecurities and sensitivity so you wont end up on the meat grinder every day instead of defending your actions (and passive aggressively attacking as I notice) the people who point out your weaknesses and weak actions (which is another symptom of severe fragility and insecurity in itself) lmao.

get trolled > get mad > block and ignore > someone points out that you are butthurt > make excuses for it and lash out at the person pointing out

i guess the females of sc have been broken down by negative life events (childhood abuse, bad relationships, trauma) so much that:

1. they cant cope with the trolling and poking at insecurities, it affects them so much that they gotta block
2. when someone points out that they are overly sensitive, invent cope excuses and lash out at tc for pointing that out,
3. stick ur ears in ur fingers and lash out at everyone who criticizes or makes observations cuz the fragile ego cant handle

my condolences.

don't have time to read Jim's post

@Turncoat

What do you want people to do, spend all their time arguing with their haters and people who disagree with them on things they consider trivial instead of doing something productive or fun with their life?

No one can please everyone, and why should anyone try to aim for that? be yourself. be authentic. If you have vulnerabilities and weaknesses so what? I don't get what about it triggers you so much. do authenticity and vulnerability scare you? are you jealous that other people enjoy being authentic and accepting all parts of themself instead of trying to conform to someone else's standard? that's healthy, my dude. you have to be able to love yourself first to be able to love someone else. and part of real love includes vulnerability.

same goes for helping others, you have to help yourself first before you can help someone else. you can not truly judge what a person needs to be at least functional, and at most their very best happiest thriving self. Stop trying to *forcefully* "save" / "strengthen" others and expect them to react positively to it, that isn't your job. when did you decide that was your job lmao. you're literally on disability income for mental issues. that's your real job hun

trolling is weak in itself, btw. It's passive aggressive instead of assertive or actually aggressive 😊 sooo, ya lol

read Jim's post actually

"inability to handle the trolling and cope with the abuse." Uhh, what?

Why choose to be abused? What the fuck lol. you are saying that by leaving or ignoring they are choosing to not cope with the abuse. well yeah no fucking shit lol why should they want to be abused?

It's not an inability, it's a choice first of all. and a much more pleasant and rational one at that

It would be more useful for yall in the long run to build more mental fortitutde and work on your insecurities and sensitivity so you wont end up on the meat grinder every day instead of defending your actions (and passive aggressively attacking as I notice) the people who point out your weaknesses and weak actions (which is another symptom of severe fragility and insecurity in itself) lmao.

The majority of people have insecurities and sensitivities that will never go away. deal with it. people would rather be themselves than become narcissistic or sociopathic and robotic and dead inside. It is okay to have insecurities and sensitivities 😊

haha tfw u couldnt handle what i said until u thought u found a chink in the argument. i make em avoid me altogether cuz they cant deal *flex*

aubrieta said: 

read Jim's post actually

"inability to handle the trolling and cope with the abuse." Uhh, what?

Why choose to be abused? What the fuck lol. you are saying that by leaving or ignoring they are choosing to not cope with the abuse. well yeah no fucking shit lol why should they want to be abused?

 

It's not an inability, it's a choice first of all. and a much more pleasant and rational one at that

 

It would be more useful for yall in the long run to build more mental fortitutde and work on your insecurities and sensitivity so you wont end up on the meat grinder every day instead of defending your actions (and passive aggressively attacking as I notice) the people who point out your weaknesses and weak actions (which is another symptom of severe fragility and insecurity in itself) lmao.

 

The majority of people have insecurities and sensitivities that will never go away. deal with it. people would rather be themselves than become narcissistic or sociopathic and robotic and dead inside. It is okay to have insecurities and sensitivities 😊

 abuse is not abuse to confident people. when a confident person is called an idiot they think "haha this guy is delusional" and smile instead of getting butthurt and lashing out / blocking. its also really sad that you have to tell yourself self confidence and being non reactionary is "cold and sociopathic" in an attempt to make yourself feel better about your own sensitivity and reactivity.

I say this because I see the potential in you and the girls here porky. Wouldnt you love being a powerful independent woman that doesnt get affected by trolls so much that they have to block and do breathing cope exercises, like alice or TC? Wouldnt you love having to not need online strangers validation and approval to keep emotional homeostasis and be grounded within yourself as a self validating secure whole person?

The effort you put in convincing yourself that you being the way you are is ok and continuing to face the same problems and butthurt could have been better spent on becoming the person you wish you were, because I know deep down yall are disgusted by how needy and vulnerable and insecure you are. Why not give it a try?

someone secret said: 

haha tfw u couldnt handle what i said until u thought u found a chink in the argument. i make em avoid me altogether cuz they cant deal *flex*

 

aubrieta said: 

read Jim's post actually

"inability to handle the trolling and cope with the abuse." Uhh, what?

Why choose to be abused? What the fuck lol. you are saying that by leaving or ignoring they are choosing to not cope with the abuse. well yeah no fucking shit lol why should they want to be abused?

 

It's not an inability, it's a choice first of all. and a much more pleasant and rational one at that

 

It would be more useful for yall in the long run to build more mental fortitutde and work on your insecurities and sensitivity so you wont end up on the meat grinder every day instead of defending your actions (and passive aggressively attacking as I notice) the people who point out your weaknesses and weak actions (which is another symptom of severe fragility and insecurity in itself) lmao.

 

The majority of people have insecurities and sensitivities that will never go away. deal with it. people would rather be themselves than become narcissistic or sociopathic and robotic and dead inside. It is okay to have insecurities and sensitivities 😊

 abuse is not abuse to confident people. when a confident person is called an idiot they think "haha this guy is delusional" and smile instead of getting butthurt and lashing out / blocking. its also really sad that you have to tell yourself self confidence and being non reactionary is "cold and sociopathic" in an attempt to make yourself feel better about your own sensitivity and reactivity.

I say this because I see the potential in you and the girls here porky. Wouldnt you love being a powerful independent woman that doesnt get affected by trolls so much that they have to block and do breathing cope exercises, like alice or TC? Wouldnt you love having to not need online strangers validation and approval to keep emotional homeostasis and be grounded within yourself as a self validating secure whole person?

The effort you put in convincing yourself that you being the way you are is ok and continuing to face the same problems and butthurt could have been better spent on becoming the person you wish you were, because I know deep down yall are disgusted by how needy and vulnerable and insecure you are. Why not give it a try?

None of this true, and nope I'd rather be me. Um both Alice and TC want to kill themselves retard, they are the opposite of strong they are both very much cowards and and have actively tried to commit suicide, Alice is currently in the process of attempting again rn as we speak