I know with sociopaths, it seems they are born like this. In most cases. With Narcissists, your real self is still a part of you, like the part of you that is human, but it's repressed. Did u choose to repress it because the pain in your childhood was too much, like the trauma, or did you think life would be easier if you repressed it and you were being selfish because you wanted an "easy" life? It probably was easier when you were younger and you have some things easier still now than normal humans. but if you can think back to when you were little.......at the point in time when you made this choice, well first of all can u remember? or do u think u were born like this? Narcissism is confusing because I don't know if I should hate narcissists or empathize with them lol
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this song made me think of my post lol like maybe this is all it comes down to? does there have to be trauma in a child's life to make it crave attention more than anything else? my BPD is rooted in trauma caused by my parents being narcissists but my PD is curable.......I'm partly asking since I'm still trying to figure out the most healthy way to deal with my parents. hate them for ruining my life or have empathy for them because I think they only developed their PD because their parents didn't give them enough attention? or maybe they are self absorbed cuntholes and that's all there is to it. something tells me it's more than that
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