I am an alpha, I also very much enjoy BDSM. When it comes to BDSM I love to be a sadist. Control is my thing, very very rarely will i ever subject myself to the power of another person, even if it is BDSM.
But, I think I'm about to have a change of heart. Last week, I had a threesome with a recently divorced MILF turned stripper (physically she is a 8.5/10 and she is getting a boob job this weeek). And then I also had her friend.
Well, I met this woman again, last night, I still have yet to sleep, but apparently this woman likes to be a dom... She also like to spoil her sub. So gladly I now hava a mistress who gives me threesomes, free cocaine, drinks, and weed. And I am her "bitch" which basically means in her world, I have to be nice to her, and let her spoil me.
Moral of the story is, if you swallow your pride, you can fuck strippers, get high, and be happy.
This is how this sounds out loud. It's amazing. 
It's funny how "a change of heart" over something once deemed necessary can happen after one successful trial. It's not just swallowing your pride, it's swallowing your pride while on coke for that matter, and if you tried to tell her "I'm an alpha" she'd probably laugh her ass off. We'll also see where things go once you unintentionally piss her off, or once she tries to break you in and make you more malleable, unless she's really just a Cougary Sugar Mama.
How can she afford to give that sort of stuff away for free?