Of course... you like to watch your lackeys defend you.
You're really boring. Your personality is the equivalent of dinner at Applebee's. Nobody could really dislike it because it's just average mediocre food designed to be pleasant to most taste buds. You're not even really a person, you're just a background character or an extra. Your problems all seem trivial and your interests come across like even you don't really care that much about them. Your discussion threads seem like something a high school guidance counselor would come up with to get people talking and sharing. You're the color beige that's ideal for a dentist's waiting room.
You avoid direct conflict out of fear that it will cause people to not like you as much. Your insecurities, whether you like to admit it or not, lead you to strongly desire acceptance to the point where you derive self esteem from the attention you receive in these threads (eg. complaining about not receiving as much mention in the favorites thread, not being high enough in the hierarchy thread, etc). There are times you come off as feeling entitled to the attention or as attempting to guilt people in to it.
During your childhood, you likely felt torn between your two parents afraid to upset either one lest they abandon you. It's carried over in to your adult interactions, where you are desperate for acceptance but too terrified to actually get close to anyone.
You want to portray a calm, collected demeanour at all times, though your insecurities and fear of abandonment eventually leak out. This causes you to feel more insecure and retreat further in to your own mind to collect yourself. You lack adequate coping mechanisms for dealing with social interaction besides this withdrawal and may be depression prone.
Asking to be insulted will have people try within the fences of the topic (somewhat), but otherwise causes the opposite. It also makes it seem like you're the sort who doesn't expect to be insulted, which in a strange way potentially makes people believe that you have less reason to be. Basically, if you ask to be insulted, it implies that it doesn't happen normally, and true or not it pushes that message further.
You ought to try asking for compliments instead, and genuinely as opposed to ironically. Animosity can't really be requested otherwise, as it's no longer organic.
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Asking to be insulted will have people try within the fences of the topic (somewhat), but otherwise causes the opposite. It also makes it seem like you're the sort who doesn't expect to be insulted, which in a strange way potentially makes people believe that you have less reason to be. Basically, if you ask to be insulted, it implies that it doesn't happen normally, and true or not it pushes that message further.
You ought to try asking for compliments instead, and genuinely as opposed to ironically. Animosity can't really be requested otherwise, as it's no longer organic.
lol Bullshit.