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GerardW stated: source post

i haven't seen them in eight years.

Did similar

I don't think of them often.

More often now.

If i do, i don't care.

I care about the lost time in understanding,while at the same time irritated .

I hate my parents because they're horrible people.

How horrible? Did they rape and physically abuse you?

I may kill frogs, but at least I don't strangle little kids.

Leave the frogs along, they diddin do nuffin.

My younger brother and I have been discussing whether or not we should get in contact with them.

Might be a good idea. Clear out some stuff

I am curious on how they're doing now.

Find out.

I wonder if they still drink.

Go, find out, then you know.

They probably still live in the house we grew up in. He seems interested in talking to them. My brother has always been the one to hold on to hope when it came to them while we were kids.

Never can know....however, you and your brother have each other...so that will help, but the question of your parents, What would you want from the at this point in life? 

I probably won't get reconnected with them. It's not like i care about them.

Your choice.....reconnected with mine...but not before I blew the lid on all the crap that had built up over the years....did not know if that would work or not, nor did I particularly care....and there was nothing they could do about it at the time either...however it did improve from  my end...oddly enough....

Go with your brother....and find out...see for yourself...then you know. What you do about it at that point is up to you.

*n.b. I am not a psychiatrist , psychologist or counsellor....but that worked for me