I wouldn't mind being used by u daddy
I'm too prideful and think I'm too deserving of misfortune to want to ask for help. I look down on anyone using anyone in a negative way because subconsciously I deem it as weak and am probably still bitter from being used in such a way.
I use people to help alleviate my unnecessary guilt that piles up from not meeting my own personal standards. I try my absolute best to support the ones I already care for, putting their needs before my own and having complete, blinding faith in them. Needless to say, it's bit me in the ass quite a few times as far as relationships are concerned.
In the anime tokyo ghoul. It hosts a boy who gets tortured. In the show he is made to count down from a thousand for each torture he receives in order to prologue his sanity while he is tortured. In the mist of his torture he is able to break free from his handcuffs and win the battle against the enemy even after breaking a leg. It was explained that during the torture he experienced so much pain that breaking a leg or freeing himself from the handcuffs was no big deal in comparison. It is off topic, it has to do more with pain tolerance than using people. I mean it is kind of related if you think about how using people over and over might make them stronger or more agile in the future.