a sociopath is someone that lacks trust. the other traits are a result of this simple problem and other individual characteristics.
it can be caused by many events adding up or one event during a person life where trust of another is broken, typically during the formative years when your personality is developing.
to quote Corey
" To get into more detail, sociopathy arises when a deep bond shared with someone is broken by the person with whom it is shared. It's a betrayal that can never be rectified. The trauma said person caused is one that can't be rationalized or justified. We can't make sense of it, but we know we are not the ones to blame. A personal conflict arises. We are the victim of someone who we had such trust in. We can't recover from that, so we change. We adapt to expect this behavior from anyone - after all, if the person we bonded with can cause such a thing, what the fuck will stop anyone else in the world? It becomes a game to us - the world, life, people. We've seen how ugly it can be, so we're prepared to be just as ugly if and when we need to. We don't feel sorry because there was no one to feel sorry for us. Fuck your feelings.
Now, there are two types - high functioning and low functioning. Each type generally operates in the opposite way. Here's a basic HFS vs LFS breakdown.
- Controlled vs uncontrolled behavior.
- Skillful deception vs obvious lying.
- Automatic (don't need to think before acting) vs manual (has to think about every step) actions.
- I would include great planners vs poor planners.
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i am sure it is different for many people, this rings true for me, a life long high functioning sociopath.