Let your anger squeak out
Hmm. I don't know. Perhaps you ought to stomp your feet some more.~ :D
"Too wholesome"? Know what that tells me? That you're typical young person seeking to distance yourself from a caricature you have of what is "healthy and good", based upon an imperative to rebel against the trite morality those in authority over you have attempted to impose on you, under the guise of "keeping your best interests at heart"- when in reality, their agendas are all they ever really cared about. It informs me you have no patience for those who would attempt to pigeonhole you. It also tells me that you have learned to distrust institutions, and rely upon your instincts instead. That's good.
Your post also reveals your emotional immaturity, and predisposition to throwing ridiculously inappropriate, histrionic temper tantrums when things don't go your way. You do this to manipulate those around you into catering to your whims. It's undermining your powers of influence, and causing you to miss out on valuable opportunities.
You remind me of someone who used to post here.
All that said... Let me know when you figure it out. :P