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being "dramatic" over small things


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Daniella stated: source post

i was reading a book about palm reading

Ahahaha.

On topic, I've seen enough examples of those that could and couldn't handle significant events where both of them sweated the small stuff to not observe a direct correlation between them. While both are stressors, they target the person differently, and how/why they cope in the ways they do vary strongly. 

For some, they sweat the small stuff and appear to handle larger problems from there being a perceptive threshold of sorts. When something is too much, other barriers kick in, but the stuff under that threshold can appear to strike harder from it being blocked out less. It's easier to allow ourselves to stress over that which doesn't matter than it is to face that which is harder to fathom. 

When something is too much, blind spots and defense mechanisms can become much more apparent than when there's less worth defending against. Someone being five minutes late is far less of a problem than one's own mortality, and yet you may see such a person externally worrying more about the former than the latter despite how much the latter is eating at them in some way. In many cases, the general stress proxies onto other areas as an outlet for it where the actual problem doesn't need to be faced.

For myself, when things become too much, my OCD-like tendencies and other flawed areas increase exponentially even though those problems themselves are completely unrelated, while the real issues are barely on the surface of my mind. 

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i was reading a book about palm reading and it said people with a shit ton of small marks on their palms are the types that are  hypercritical and hypersensitive about the small things, but still handle significant life events way better than most would for some reason. whether you believe in palm reading or not, these types are out there (not sure what psychology calls it).  i'm this type.

it makes sense because i consider it like vaccination. freaking out over small shit constantly can sometimes be like playing in mud. your coping is sharpened just like your immune system would be sharpened rolling around in dirt all day. of course this doesn't apply to all people that are neurotic or dramatic. so people like this aren't really "dramatic" at all, because it actually evens out and pans out well in the end

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ThenFuckit stated: source post

WOWWOWOWO

FUCK YOU

I AM NOT DRAMATIC AT ALL

YOU PIECE OF SHIT

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No i do not think being dramatic over bullshit is a good personality trait. It sounds annoying, exhausting and probably destructive.

I feel triggered

 

 

 

 

 

And it's gone :( 

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Alter brought up schema modes in her representation of Raven in the "voice" thread, which may have correlative worth here...

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i read myself using the book's guidelines and it was actually spot on. there are two types of palm reading: scientific (where you look at the lines and folds in someone's hands) and psychic (where you touch/feel palms and go off of energy). the former is just guesswork based on common/consistent correlations and the latter is way more supernatural. this particular kind of palm reading i was reading about is no different than trying to tell a guy's dick size from what his ears look like lol. except it's probably more accurate. there are a lot of things that people assume are "otherworldly" that really aren't.

 

 

 

 

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being "dramatic" over small things

WOWWOWOWO

FUCK YOU

I AM NOT DRAMATIC AT ALL

YOU PIECE OF SHIT

--

 

No i do not think being dramatic over bullshit is a good personality trait. It sounds annoying, exhausting and probably destructive.

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I wear that badge with honour. 

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small things add up. then wham, a small thing pushes me over the edge

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Turncoat stated: source post

For myself, when things become too much, my OCD-like tendencies and other flawed areas increase exponentially even though those problems themselves are completely unrelated, while the real issues are barely on the surface of my mind. 

I've noticed the same thing in myself. Unrelated issues are tied in ways I don't even know. This is most likely the case for many, hence why they may be caught "over reacting", when in reality, their reaction in proper context might be perfectly understandable. 

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Sometimes I just have dramatic days. Like today, this young guy cut in my line like I wasn't there. I knew he saw me. I had a surge of emotion, I saw sharp white  light and heard sirens in my brain, then i threw my groceries to the ground,dropped to my knees and sobbed loudly. Security came running and I told them he pushed me. He protested but i just whimpered louder till he was escorted out. I got my groceries for free. He called me a crazy cunt and i just smiled sweetly.  

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