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Having An Outlet For Aggression


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You see yourself as an aggressive person WW3? lol I'd love to hear all about your real life pent up aggression. Let's start with your home life. How often are you in conflicts with you parents and/or siblings if you have any?

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Way ahead of ya, bud.

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Hey, look at us having something in common over here.

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Outlets i.e. SC work for me in the short run. I don't know about the long run.

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Does it help?

I'm going to start by saying that I personally don't think it does, as I believe it feeds aggression. Furthermore, I think if you have problems with aggression it is far better to get at the root of its cause and start building coping skills and adapt into your daily routine a method of mindfulness, and calming techniques. It was brought up in chat that sports may be a good outlet for people with aspd, as they can let out their aggression. I won't disagree that sports has it benefits in many character building areas, but in my opinion, those who go into sports who have problems with aggression, seem to be the ones being arrested for domestic violence amongst their other sports playing peers.

I will also post up studies I have found that support this concept. 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/ulterior-motives/200909/you-cant-punch-your-way-out-anger 

Here's one to get the ball rolling.^

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don't get too excited

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Woah...I'm not gonna go there. You're asking pretty personal questions. I would not consider myself an aggressive person but I do feel stressed for no reason (my life isn't really stressful) and SC helps with that.

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"but if the kid's psychological profile is more ambiguous, and it looks as though the key problems are restless energy and feeling alienated from peers, a sport could channel one and potentially eliminate the other"

I agree.

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It depends on your aggression.

I was a very aggressive person, but i have worked at it for years. In fact i even didn't realize i was aggressive and i think that's because of what i like to call "emotional dissonance". I feel the emotions, but my mind doesn't acknowledge them, even tho i act on them. And once i am done, i don't even remember being angry. So it was pretty hard to realize that i was getting angry(like randomly inventing the fire). But once i did, i worked on not being angry. Became a more calm person overall.

I still would have a problem if i am faced with a situation i did not predict and/or if its a situation in which i think my anger is justified. I do not know limits and i do not understand them. I have learned to hold back my initial urge. But if the thing that angered me keeps at it, i will just end them. I tried to kill my father like this once. But luckily my urges are also short, as long as i feel that justice is either served or not really required.

 

I like to be aggressive. But i also do not want to be aggressive to people that i do not think deserve it(+ every once in a blue moon i really like someone and it would be a massive waste if i was a dick to them before hand). So i hold myself back all the time. However if i find someone who i think deserves it, i will enjoy my aggression towards them. This aggression is direct and straightforward. And it relaxes me, like letting go of the frustrations i gain over the course of hours, days, months. I still get frustrated at stupid things, thought much less then i used to. I have started to appreciate life a lot more in just recent years. I usually use this forum, or online video games to release this aggression and i can enjoy it. So thats why while i hate Rass, i want to see her here, because i feel absolutely justified to be a relentless asshole at her. And every time eddie gets his titties in a twist over it, just feeds the hate machine even more.
This kind of aggression i can see as addictive, because it makes you feel good. And if your outlet feeds it, it may not be a good idea to do it regularly lol. I do not do it regularly.
PS: Reasonably thought, i prefer if Rass never comes back. Even if i will enjoy her as a punching bag.

 

However there are other aggression and i do not know if they are types or whatever, i never read anything about this, its all my personal analysis. If something out of your control angers you and you need to just vent it this one time, then an outlet is perfect. Maybe its this forum, a video game, a movie, sports, whatever.

 

Whatever your aggression thought, if you do not know the reason for it, any outlet is just a distraction and the moment it ends, the aggression comes back.

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WW3 stated: source post

Woah...I'm not gonna go there. You're asking pretty personal questions. I would not consider myself an aggressive person but I do feel stressed for no reason (my life isn't really stressful) and SC helps with that.

Quit being such a pussy about personal questions. Knowing how you act with your family is not enough to get you doxed.

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