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the entire quote actually makes you look worse. i mean look at these contradictory statements together:

"So I cussed him and called him a stupid little punk and yadayada, hoping he'd come at me and give me the satisfaction of carving him up...But I figured I could gamble on the fact that those boys didn't want to give me an excuse to cut them."

"So I walk with a hammer in my knapsack, a blade in my pocket, and a big padlock in my other pocket. Just in case. I only fight to defend myself"

you say you cursed at him, hoping he'd attack you and give you an excuse to carve him up, and then you say you only carry weapons to defend yourself. i understand you're used to rationalizing and justifying all the crazy shit you say and do, but to me..you're just bonkers.

She's definitely something.

Her inability to recognize herself as a victim interests me. She goes to some extreme rewritings of situations in order to prevent having to cope with the idea, making her seem literally incapable of it.

I'm curious about her mother now personally. There's likely a lot of stories there.

A level head speaks...

Have yet to meet perfect parents, we all leave marks on each other if we live together long enough... family is no different. I suspect our generations are rather close, Xena and I... you are correct our situations in life have been very different and must be taken into consideration. To say I am not judging would be a lie, I think near impossible to judge  a little bit... and here is what my judgement comes to... Xena has a hang up with child, well molestation is the word but brings the wrong initial context. She's sexually oriented to begin with, and very protective of child innocents... I have to wonder if something happened to cause this. Xena has denied any molestation to her... I still wonder.

yea, she often says bizarre things but it doesn't mean much if you haven't joined the dots yet, as i'm starting to. do you still think she's schizophrenic?

So what do you hope to accomplish when you call people names bc they annoy you, sugar? 

You do it far more often than I do.

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She's from a different generation, she's lived through some tough times and in different environments/neighborhoods than most of you here, so ofc she has her own way of coping with life. Based on that she took the decisions she saw as best for her kids. I see nothing to contradict this, and her version of the events is plausible and makes sense to me without raising any creepy pedo suspicions.

Everyone here is from some generation, from some neighborhood, some environment, different histories, different traumas, different ways of coping with life.  That hasn't stopped us (-ahem- any of us) from picking them apart before.  Why should it stop us now?

A lot of you jumping on Xena project your own ideas about how to raise kids, despite that you have no fucking experience with raising kids yourself (Sugar, wooster, etc).

... Wooster has kids. : P

It's just lowly at this point, to do this shit to some single mother online, and it shows either massive immaturity or massive issues on the part of those who do it. It's just fucked up at this point.

 This is only one of numerous times that you've referenced Xena being a single mother, in her defense.  With your masculine ego issues and the fact that I've heard you speak idealistically about your mother, but never a word about your father, it leaves me a bit curious.  Was your father in your life, Ed?

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A level head speaks...

Have yet to meet perfect parents, we all leave marks on each other if we live together long enough... family is no different. I suspect our generations are rather close, Xena and I... you are correct our situations in life have been very different and must be taken into consideration. To say I am not judging would be a lie, I think near impossible to judge  a little bit... and here is what my judgement comes to... Xena has a hang up with child, well molestation is the word but brings the wrong initial context. She's sexually oriented to begin with, and very protective of child innocents... I have to wonder if something happened to cause this. Xena has denied any molestation to her... I still wonder.

Maybe there's something there in Xena's past, I never said it wasn't. But at least you see that she's protective of child innocents instead of calling her a molester, so yeah, I am glad you are bringing more level head-ness to this disgusting show-off.

Interesting change of tack by TC after I pointed out the emotional overreaction on t'other thread ;)

Good post. 

Yeah that was judgmental, but his last post showed he's able to see the bigger picture instead of just rabidly attacking like others here.