I can't help but to suspect that like seemingly many, you romanticize sociopathy. If people deem you "worthy" of the label it becomes validation for you that you aren't sensitive or emotional or a social animal or anything else you consider a human weakness. It comes across as a reflection of this very weakness that causes such a degree of self-shaming and identity dependence. You may be a sociopath, but only if/because you have a conduct disorder and are frequently disgruntled and struggle to learn from mistakes. None of that is the same as being indifferent or desensitized, traits I consider to be inconsistent with those which your posts suggest.
In some contexts, to seek acknowledgement from others that one is without the usual human "soft spots" is in fact another means to defend and protect these soft spots, clumsily pushing them into the spotlight when, if nothing at all had been said, they might have remained behind the curtain.