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Xena stated: source post

I don't consider my first sexual experience molestation, thanks.

14 years old and I came my fuckin face off.

Is that better?

What was he like, and how much older than you was he (assuming you mean that sort of molestation definition)?

Also, I thought the first sexual encounter for most women was supposed to be awful. Did you ride horses or masturbate furiously prior?
 

And no, my 16 yo son does not have sex. My 23 yo daughter was a virgin till she was 19. She's been with one man (her fiancee) ever since. She has only recently begun experimenting with alternative lifestyles within the framework of her loving relationship.

That's fine and all, but how would you have responded to age 14 sex from your kids? Most people tend to have an easier time framing it as alright for themselves, but once it becomes about their kids parents throw around all sorts of contradictions.
 

You wish it were smthg awful. lol

Yeah... I think I basically just said that. It'd likely make for a better story.
 

Xena stated: source post

Nah. Just Turncoat, and everybody he's got parroting him calling me Judas :P

So... you think I started the Judas thing? 

I don't really see myself as much of a Ring Leader. I just like to watch ripples in the pond.
 

He tries, anyway. He's not very good at hurting teh ladeez, tho.

I'm in this for the entertainment. How much it does or doesn't hurt you only matters as much as it allows for yuks.

Xena stated: source post

He was 34 and a little creepy, but not too hard on the eyes.

A 20 year gap with a 14 year old. Personally, that seems like more than "a little creepy".
 

From 14 to my late 20s I had a lot of sex, too. Loads. XD

beyond that, I can't say bc my perceptions of the partner would have affected my reactions.

What sort of 34 year old would not be creepy to have perving on your kids at 14?

"What was he like, and how much older than you was he (assuming you mean that sort of molestation definition)?

Also, I thought the first sexual encounter for most women was supposed to be awful. Did you ride horses or masturbate furiously prior?"

He was 34 and a little creepy, but not too hard on the eyes. We were both drunk. And hell yes I masturbated several times/day from the age of 11. From 14 to my late 20s I had a lot of sex, too. Loads. XD
 

"That's fine and all, but how would you have responded to age 14 sex from your kids? Most people tend to have an easier time framing it as alright for themselves, but once it becomes about their kids parents throw around all sorts of contradictions."

I'm glad I didn't have to worry about it. I would have been concerned for them, but beyond that, I can't say bc my perceptions of the partner would have affected my reactions.

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You wish it were smthg awful. lol

Yeah... I think I basically just said that. It'd likely make for a better story."

And you wonder why I keep my boring vanilla sex life to myself?

I know there's just not much that would be of interest to you people.

Wut? 

Not sure what you're trying to say here.

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beyond that, I can't say bc my perceptions of the partner would have affected my reactions.

What sort of 34 year old would not be creepy to have perving on your kids at 14?"

Exactly.

I meant that I might have considered letting either of my kids start dating another 14 -17 yo, depending on the circumstances, the person, the maturity level, that sort of thing.

Not a 34 yo, tho. Yes I'm a hypocrite  :P

My daughter's fiancee is 10 years older than she is, btw. I don't mind. He's a decent person and his family is lovely.

Why is this topic even being discussed?

Xena stated: source post

My daughter's fiancee is 10 years older than she is, btw. I don't mind. He's a decent person and his family is lovely. 

I don't see that as that weird either. Pre-college age gets weird from them being naive and still developing, but past that it kind of becomes an even playing field beyond a few lessons of demographic. 

Not to mention how that might have made room for this past gem: 

Sugar stated: source post

"I also mangled a roommate once bc my daughter-- who was only 2 at the time, and not very articulate--said something that sounded like he'd molested her. I cut him up bad, put him in the hospital, severed some of the nerves in his arm. He'll probably never regain full use of it. My daughter told me years later that I'd misunderstood her. He'd put her diaper on wrong and it was hurting her shnoo."

"After the neighbours called the cops bc they heard me screaming cusswords at him, and saw him run out of the house all bloody, Child Protective Services harassed me for 14 years, and eventually forced me to choose between homelessness and turning my son into one of their psychosurgery experiments. Better me than him. Homelessness was still better than pen time."

Of course she justifies it for herself with "being 14", but it still has me wonder somewhat. Most 14 year olds I've met weren't really the sort to make informed decisions.

Those must have been some interesting calls spanning across those 14 years (14 twice? Weird coincidence).

Makes you wonder what else she let mature guys / women do to her children because they are "nice" and "generous" :D

So what was your former Pedo Don Juan like? Was he a teacher or something?