Hi, newguy here. Im just gonna vomit, ok?
How do you deal with hc shit testing? Its like i cant map out their character well enough to spot when they are testing me. Sometimes its so incongruent its as they are constantly on the test. Im talking about men that arent desperate so they are multi choise moral headlocks. Most have lived in different countries and have so contradicting worldview, i dont know what to make of it. No answer appears to be out of the question. They grew up in an hars environment for sure because they seem to have the natural antidote against prying. So. Any ideas? Books perhaps since i havent read shit.
I really really really want to be their friend :"((