"I'm not the pretty little girl you so desperatly want to turn into a victim."
It's more about you not being the victim and holding yourself accountable for your actions/choices. Life sucks you're right, quit being over-dramatic
It sure does.
My xmas dinner was enough to make anyone jealous...
why can i never post pics here :(
Mika, not sure if you were lying or not, but you told me you were abused in the family as a kid. Why would you cry now about them not being fun company for Christmas? Doesn't make sense to me. Your constant whines about life being shitty and people being disappointing reminded me of this stuff someone posted on the old forum: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-defeating_personalitydisorder
Sounds familiar?
- chooses people and situations that lead to disappointment, failure, or mistreatment even when better options are clearly available
- rejects or renders ineffective the attempts of others to help them
- following positive personal events (e.g., new achievement), responds with depression, <a title="Guilt (emotion)" href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Guilt%28emotion%29">guilt, or a behavior that produces pain (e.g., an accident)
- incites angry or rejecting responses from others and then feels hurt, defeated, or humiliated (e.g., makes fun of spouse in public, provoking an angry retort, then feels devastated)
- rejects opportunities for pleasure, or is reluctant to acknowledge enjoying themself (despite having adequate social skills and the capacity for pleasure)
- fails to accomplish tasks crucial to their personal objectives despite demonstrated ability to do so, e.g., helps fellow students write papers, but is unable to write their own
- is uninterested in or rejects people who consistently treat them well
- engages in excessive self-sacrifice that is unsolicited by the intended recipients of the sacrifice
EDIT: This site is so shitty.