eheheheheheheehhehehehehhheee another sock accusation l0l
"But there is one trait that both of you share and that is your concern of how the community views you. Why is this?"
For the intendant thing, it's a direct reflection of my likelihood of being able to hold onto it. It's kind of nice. Beyond that it doesn't hurt to have patterns that are less likely to burn bridges, as who knows what use they might have at another time?
If you mean for me as a person, the way I type is pretty much how I am.
"You put a lot of thought into each post making sure it stays neutral in the community's eyes so to not put yourself in a negative light."
The "neutrality" reflects how I think, not how I want to appear. That sort of model becomes self canceling once neutrality becomes the negative light.
"Is this why you prefer to ask the poster questions instead of giving your opinion. Because a opinion can be brought back up in the future and used against you ?"
I've said opinions, and some have been used against me. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt related to you having not read all of my posts. It's a little hard to have 7.5k genuine posts without expressing yourself a little. 
"You have the book knowledge to debate with the best of them. But what you lack is the confidence to do so."
Based on..?