The way you are describing things are deeply personal. You are painting a picture of the world and it's forces pressing down on you.
That's how it sounds, anyways.
What you'd probably be interested in, is axiomatics. The science where people agree to "conspire", or "organize" by laws, or rules, or religions and moral beliefs.
An excellent philosophy or ideological system that's milleniums old and still in use today where axiomatics probably stem from, is logic.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Logic
Consistency, which means that no theorem of the system contradicts another.[14]
Validity, which means that the system's rules of proof never allow a false inference from true premises. A logical system has the property of soundness when the logical system has the property of validity and uses only premises that prove true (or, in the case of axioms, are true by definition).[14]
Completeness, of a logical system, which means that if a formula is true, it can be proven (if it is true, it is a theorem of the system).
Soundness, the term soundness has multiple separate meanings, which creates a bit of confusion throughout the literature. Most commonly, soundness refers to logical systems, which means that if some formula can be proven in a system, then it is true in the relevant model/structure (if A is a theorem, it is true). This is the converse of completeness. A distinct, peripheral use of soundness refers to arguments, which means that the premises of a valid argument are true in the actual world.
For example, consistency. Is it entirely 1984, all the time where you go, or is it a subjective experience.
If it is a subjective experience, then the consistency of your claims could be compromised.
That can give you the quick and hard answers, such as, changing your environment, will tell you where freedom is.