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by Turncoat

"Have you ever taken someone under your wings?"
I used to have a bad compulsive need to mentor people that lead to having what others viewed like a side kick or thrall. I've stopped that, and now prefer advising.

"Do you concider yourself as charming?"

Well, from a personal point of view, I think I might have some charm. I've noticed most people are nice to me and enjoy my company. 

Do you believe it to be a trait, or lack of it, from nature, nurture or free will?

Both. If you're born with it, awesome. Nevertheless, you can also learn it and replicate charm. It just requires some tact and intelligence to do it. 

Do you concider yourself to have loved ones?

Definitely!

In what way do you care for them?

Emotional support, appreciation, loyalty

How do you show them affection?

A lot of ways (they love to laugh and I'm glad I was born with the ability to say funny things, so they enjoy my comments or jokes). 

Do you in any way see them as yours?

No, they're free individuals, but in some way, I feel they're under my protection.

Do you feel responsible for other people?

No, I don't. Nevertheless, if I had to assume a responsibility of that type, I'd do it. 

Have you ever taken someone under your wings?

No, never. 

Have you controlled someone?

No, because I've been controlled in the past and I value freedom. I don't like to be controlling in any way. 

Do you feel love?

Only for a few family members. Nevertheless, I've never felt any type of love/bond connection with other people, outside my bloodlines.

What is love?

I don't know. It's too abstract for me to define it. 

Do you feel regret?

Sometimes, but the feeling disappears quite fast, so it's almost non-existent

What goes on in your mind if someone hurt someone you like/love/own?

Resentment

"Do you concider yourself as charming?"
Not really, but I know others who do. The inconsistency makes it not really a yes or no scenario.

"Do you believe it to be a trait, or lack of it, from nature, nurture or free will?"
It's closer to natural chemistry/compatibility.

"Do you concider yourself to have loved ones?"
Not with that word anyway, but that's closer to personal appraisal. Others would look at my life and probably say "yes".

"In what way do you care for them?"
We mutually give each other something we each need.

"How do you show them affection?"
By figuring out what they really want, surprising them with it if it's something I can do and don't mind doing, have it become the norm, and then watch them become less reserved and more hedonistic overtime. With it tends to follow attachment, like becoming a lesser form of a feeding tube.

It's nice sometimes to feel needed.

"Do you in any way see them as yours?"
Just during moments of jealousy that sometimes crop up. I don't act on it, but that doesn't mean it isn't there.

"Do you feel responsible for other people?"
Only when I was responsible for the course of action they followed, and mostly because I see it as a fault of my own for not seeing how it could go wrong in advance.

"Have you ever taken someone under your wings?"
I used to have a bad compulsive need to mentor people that lead to having what others viewed like a side kick or thrall. I've stopped that, and now prefer advising.

"Have you controlled someone?"
My way of going about it's closer to setting the stage and having them act out their logical conclusions. Why control them directly when I could instead instigate what they'd normally do otherwise but within my necessary projections? Closest to controlling a person I'll do is controlling my own responses to make them do what comes naturally to them when presented with how I am acting.

"Do you feel love?"
Probably not. Every time it can be described it ends up describing something else.

"What is love?"
Baby don't hurt me. Don't hurt me. No more.

What is love? Love is vague.

"Do you feel regret?"
Yeah, but I try to not give it as much weight as it'd like to have.

"What goes on in your mind if someone hurt someone you like/love/own?"
Depends on what happened and who it happened to. More often than not I trust that those I know can handle themselves.

Do you concider yourself as charming? 

Do you believe it to be a trait, or lack of it, from nature, nurture or free will? 

Do you concider yourself to have loved ones?

In what way do you care for them?

How do you show them affection? 

Do you in any way see them as yours?

Do you feel responsible for other people? 

Have you ever taken someone under your wings? 

Have you controlled someone? 

Do you feel love?

What is love?

Do you feel regret? 

What goes on in your mind if someone hurt someone you like/love/own?