His projection is about control and power. He insults you because he needs to be fed. His ego craves the degrading comments he spews out his mouth. He watches your reaction. Starve it an don't give him a reaction. Ask your mother to meet with him somewhere else. You won't be subjecting yourself to to his insults. It's your home. He'll laugh and spew out some shit because that's what he only knows to do -' but that's okay ...get the fucker off your tail.
My brother is a narcissist and I'm tired of his bullying. Every time he comes over to my place to visit my mom (she lives with me) he insults me and makes remarks to put me down, I told him many times before to stop, and I told my mom I didn't want to see him at home again to no avail.
Last time I told him I would call the police if he ever provoked me again (via text)... I have a pepper spray, what should I do? should I pepper spray him, call the police? Narcs are so difficult to deal with...
Well, I can ignore him, the thing is he provokes other family members (niece, cousins) into mocking me, he takes bad pictures and videos of me and sends them out to relatives and friends, like social media bullying, I decided next time I will drawn his iPhone in water, I would never do that to him (at least for no reason)... Maybe I can enact revenge? no, I want this to end