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Seduction: This is not something premeditated for me. It's second nature, and when people say I'm flirtatious or seductive, I usually have to recall my steps to understand what they mean. In hindsight: I watch people carefully and find out what they respond to. I listen to them. Really listen to them, so that I can try to figure out what kind of person I'm dealing with. What are they missing in their life? What are they hiding? If they are hiding something I know I can help them release- I go to that place.
There are certain types I can't pull off. The ones who like the extremely superficial/high maintenance types. I can't pull that shit off. I mean, if I really wanted to- then maybe. But mostly I can't stand those types so much that I only end up rebelling.
My ideal partner is someone on equal footing as me. I don't take care of them and they don't take care of me. An interdependent relationship. Someone who doesn't feel they have to mirror me. Doesn't depend on me for every aspect of their being, and knows who the fuck they are. If we are talking about a partner to really be with.
When I genuinely like someone I make them my muse. It's so narcissistic/artsy in the beginning I realize, but that's how it is with me. I want to appeal to their desire to be a subject of study and in the end... a work of art. I have to know who are the ones that long for the spoken or written word for that to work out though. The ones who love it are the best ones, and I get high off them. Well... we get high off each other. But it never lasts. The brain is not designed to live on only highs.
Last question: Not always. But I'm much quicker to see what I'm doing than in the past. I try to be very mindful of my actions now. But I still slip into who I've been. What I'm most used to. It's hard to go against the greater wires. I was always the siren and I didn't see myself that way. That's not who I want to be but who I learned to be to survive. Now, I just want to learn to live well and be sincere. Why should I live my whole life like a con?
"How do you seduce someone?"
An open minded willingness to discuss sex tends to have thoughts tangent to sexual areas. It effectively gives them comfort and permission to think about you related to sex, which in itself tends to open more doors than it closes.
Other than that it tends to be more of a chemistry thing once things like scent and appearance come into play.
"Are there certain things or "techniques" that you find yourself doing when trying to appeal to someone's sensual or sexual nature?"
I tend to respond to scent pretty strongly, which interestingly changes my behaviors. Instead of being uncaring I can become annoyingly doting (bordering needy depending on the escalation). Other than that I continue being myself and those that are into that stick around.
"Are there certain types that you do not or cannot seduce?"
I seem to only attract bi people, and I personally go for those who are more experimental with a sense of power that can be switched on.
"What is your ideal partner//ideal date?"
A sadist with a lot of patience and a trigger response to feeling challenged who I share interests with. Beyond that, someone I can have a conversation with who can keep up without me needing to repeat myself a lot.
"How do you behave around you genuinely like?"
That depends on how much they physically harm me.
"Are you able to recognize when you behave differently?"
Yeah, it's fucking annoying.
Being a comedian and pure bastard by nature my seduction methods consist of sexual innuendos (in your end o ;) ), double entendres, puns mixed with lots of dominance / confidence show-off behaviour. The women I meet either give me shy / suggestive gazes within minutes or try to tear me down / get inappropiately angry (maybe feeling threatened? like they are losing the power / attention they imagine that they get?)