Nothing special happened although she was "sure" I was displeased with her. Meh, she's so paranoid. Never really escalated into anything. Although we went to a fair and me and some young friends went on a few rides. Was actually quite fun.
She is a schizo but also she is one of the most domineering people I've ever seen. She had people do exactly as she said because she has some funky emotional power over them, pushes the right buttons and so on. Besides her being basically charismatic like a cult leader there is not much of value inside her head. Very selfish bitch.
My interest is as the protector of my friend. Do a good deed. Get reward.
But also it annoys me to no end that she actually conned me and stuff.
Haven't shared my ideas about the human mind with her.
LOL, I do carry my own grocery bags. These hands are not only made for playing musical instruments and hammering away on the keyboard. I go on hikes, fix up my hideout, chop wood, carry water, do gardening... that stuff. Even helped her with some fixing up things.
Maybe I'm just too perfect and she gets envious? OK, now that's not a narc thought at all, is it? ;)
I see the issue. Well, no one is unaccessible. She needs taught a lesson.
Even the most selfish and heartless of normal women have buttons. I suspect, given by her approximate age, she has been severely used and burned. Her emotional instability suggests abuse, likely physical and emotional, likely in her early 20's.
I'd dig into her past. And if she really is so careless, I'd imagine she's committed a crime or two through her rampages.
Many people have thought she is. And been burned. She gets her way, always. I have no idea how, but she owns a huge property and basically has not worked for years just here and there. She can invoke pity in people. So they give her things. Or she can make people feel bad, and then they also give her things. Her house was given to her. A car was given to her.
How she conned me? I was gullible and thought a mom of a friend would have too much social pressure on her to not pay me back. I didn't really know her that well back then so I was like sure, you haven't got your paycheck yet, go ahead borrow some money if it is that you want.
Meh.
The difficult thing with her I think is the combo of mental illness so she is highly unpredictable plus very dominant, self loving and selfish. If someone has a pattern of behavior it is much easier to predict the outcome of your own actions towards her. I am very much a pattern thinker.
Maybe she doesn't like you because she thinks you are into pop psychology. Or maybe your appearance or the way you act. Are you the type of person who is a prima donna? Can't do things for yourself or carry your own groceries. Things like that.
There are some people who have gone thru things that are not obvious to others. There are many kinds of abuse, neglect, etc. that really cause damage that last a lifetime.
I hate princesses. I have nothing against people buying things for me though. :)